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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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What a beautiful poem @BlueBay ❣

Families come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and forms you know. All those circles might be separated, but they are all on the same set of shoes !!

❤️

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t'other day

t'other day i spoke to you

i wasnt feeling down or blue

i was actually quite well indeed

the chains were off i had been freed

we spoke for a little over an hour it was

just talking talking just because

i didnt need to talk this day

but still i talked anyway

it made me feel normal again

to talk about things other than pain

we spoke of my son and my tafe course too

i talked i talked i talked to you

i talked to you t'other day

though i didnt have much to say

it was good you came in is what you said

i threw that thought around my head

why was it good when nothing was wrong

i pondered this the whole day long

i showed you the side i rarely show

the one high above not down below

i gave you a taste of my glorious highs

the beaming smile and twinkling eyes

t'other day we spoke you and i

and im still feeling just as high

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@GonePirate

❤ ⚓

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Just having a chat can really lift the mood ... but usually only when enough of the hard stuff is dealt with.

cheers me hearty @GonePirate

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The night is dark

nowhere for me to be

it's such a strange feeling

i wish it wasn't me

i feel so trapped in my life

i feel it's not really me

i try i really do

i don't really know why

i cry so much about my life

i feel no one cares anymore

you are all probably sick of

listening to me

so why do i stay?

i often think of that

i just wish i knew why

maybe it's all so true

the struggles are there

for me and you

the struggles are real

and if you don't believe me

well i don't care

for i know what my heart feels

i know what it's like

to feel so trapped in my life

and to yell is not so right

I am now going to sleep

i need my rest and to believe

that i can get better

gee i wish it was sooner and

not much later

i am so glad to meet you all

i just don't know what i am thinking

its just so dark

i wish i could see some light

i feel i can't leave this forum just yet

i need to rest now and just forget

my life is one piece of crap i know

but just the other day i was feeling not that slow

tomorrow is another day

i hope its better than yesterday

i hate when friends just think they understand

when really they have no damn clue

and that's why i feel so blue .......

goodnight everyone, i need to be alone, not sure for how long???? 😞

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Have a gentle night @BlueBay. Some of us will be around on Night Shift if you change your mind and want to chat at any time.

❤️

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Hi @faithandhope
I was not in a good head space last night. Reading my poem over again I was pretty bad. I'm ok today 😊
After crying myself to sleep I had a good night sleep.

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I am out and about today @BlueBay, but I have picked up your post, and just wanted to say that I am glad you have recovered.

It sounds like crying yourself to sleep last night was another release, after the poem was as well. Sometimes you've just got to get it all out there and expressed in some form or another.

And even if they can't actually help you to solve the issues, just being able to say "I'm hurting" and hear someone else say "I hear you !" is what we need most of all .......

We may not be able to see each other on these forums, but we "see" each other ❤

Hugs n hugs ...... I hope you find some beauty in this day .....

🌷

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AM I A GHOST
There are things to do
but i can't get up
Nothing seems worth it
stuck in a rut
But if i keep laying here
I'm already dead
Must throw off the covers
Get out of my head
And there it goes
that paralysing fear
As I simply dare
to expose it here
It loses it power
Feet to the floor
Though still alone
Scared no more

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CHURCH SICK NOTE:

GOOD MORNING
I Got this cough
I better not share
So staying at home
My four walls stare
What's new about that
I hear you say
Just where I'm at
In a single day
My dog snuggles up
As the rain closes in
Just need to stay warm
But also need kin
So I'll open my bible
And be praying for you
Together in spirit
Our lives renewed 💜
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