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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Came to visit this thread to write a spontaneous poem, but lost the spirit for it after a small collection of words. Before coming here I tried to get back into editing a video I started some time ago. Tech issues got in the way and may even mean I abandon that project all together.

And yet I feel not pushing through this resistance tonight in both cases is the wisest thing, recognising that sometimes blocks to my intentions may be an indication I'm not meant to do what I intended at just at that moment. Going with the flow is about pushing past obstacles when needed, and also being able to stand still or take a step back.

I've been trying to exercise strengths every day, as has been suggested in the six week group course I have been doing with my psychologist. Via a clinical psych quiz, creativity comes up number one on my strengths. I've been highly prolific with creating digital media for over a decade up until this past year. Quiet times are good as well.

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Feel so helpless, meaningless and down

Struggling all my life

Helpless is the main thing

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Hello @Meowmy

It's now 3 hours ago that you posted a message about your concerns. Are you still nearby? If you are and would care to chat, please give me a 'wave'.

With Concern and Best Wishes

@HenryX

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@HenryX hey Henry, feeling better now. Thanks for care and support

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Hi @Meowmy

Great to know that feelings have improved Meowmy.

Best Wishes

@HenryX

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Feeling so far away

Less like myself

In a fog so thick

It's hard to be my true self

Getting flashback so real

It's getting harder for me to distinguish that line between reality and my fears

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@Silenus Hello Silenus, I am here in the Yurt of No Hurt ...

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Before I met you,when I first spoke with you, I knew it's you. The one. So it was turbulent. My life at great risk. At risk of losing all. That I was so young. My whole life could end. I know I knew I love you as one and only. I knew it was right. It went on. You stood by me. I barely can breath under so much pressure, carrying severe illness. On it went for many years. It was then you let me go on

I let go because you are one and only.

Now I am so much older. Still sick often but so much better at managing.

I didn't let you know that now.i am free

But I know you know. That you are one and only

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Feel very sad

So much to say

But no one to

Alone here

Memories of crosses to bear

Trails stretching afar

I hardly have spot to stand

So many dark dreams

Cloudy over years

Yet still persuing

Heart desires

Amazing grace

To come so far

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When I put up these walls I piled stone on stone for years,<br>I laboured in sweat and blood driven by a anguish and tears, <br>I built them brick by brick trying to keep myself safe,<br>A fortress where nothing could get in.. where I could not escape.<br>I thought I was building a safe place for myself that I could hide within,<br>but now im behind the walls I've built I can see I've built a prison.<br>I've built myself in confined behind the stone,<br>Isolated and cut off from the world trapped in here alone.<br>This whole time I thought I was doing the right thing, <br>But I see now these actions have come back to bite me,<br>I'm the jailed and the jailer I built my own cell.<br>I put up these foolish walls,<br>And trapped myself in hell.<br>Boxed my self in with these feelings, locked myself up in despair <br>Cut off from the outside world and pretended I didn't care.
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