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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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@bipolarbunny so so beautiful and moving, A Hundred Thanks. I felt tears rising as the last lines of each verse added to my sense of the inner experiences you have shared with Jeff. What a natural talent you are with writing, a true gift. I like bluegrass too! I especially relate to this line...

For there is more to me than fear...

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Brilliant as always @bipolarbunny ❤️

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@bipolarbunny

In response to "A Hundred Thanks"-

Somehow I missed this despite you tagging me!

Awesome, excellent, wonderful...all the words! 🙂

Keep them coming please!

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@bipolarbunny(and all)

A brief snippet I wrote today. I've decided to discontinue it, but thought I'd share

Stark

I fear to appear before my peers

Mortified by the reception

I might receive as death nears

Starkly exposed in my deception

I've decided to wrtie something more 'positive' instead! lol

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Hey @StuF

I really like Stark, I find writing out the negative a big help too, so don't be so quick to end something if it's in you and trying to get out. That's how I see it anyway. I also could identify with what you wrote, so poignant! Keep going my friend.

BB 🐰💙

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Hey everyone,

@greenpea @Shaz51 @StuF @Mazarita @Appleblossom @Judi9877 @rivergal @frog @Always-hope @HenryX @Meowmy @Anastasia @Daisydreamer @EOR @TAB @Fizz @TideisTurning @BlueBay @Meggle @The-Hams and anyone else passing by...

Been a busy week, but wanted to share a verse I wrote about my feelings towards the stigma I've faced with regards to my mental health. I guess it was written in frustration. I'm guessing some, if not most of you will be able to identify with it.

Hope you all find a little magic in your week! Big hugs xx

BB 🐰💙

Stigma

Frustrations loom large in a bipolar life,

Society deeming you nothing but strife,

Subjected to judgement and harsh ridicule,

Bereft of a voice, made to look like a fool.

Unstable, unbalanced, a pain in the arse,

Considered a joke with a life that’s a farce,

Unable to work without losing your shit,

At the ignorance spewing from every git.

Supposedly violent, a mad psychopath,

Severely misjudged by the media’s wrath,

Too loud, too obnoxious, unruly at best,

Just another born loser, a meaningless pest.

An emotional misfit, too broke to belong,

In a culture where normal is tragically wrong,

Just an angry, belligerent, never do well,

Who is labeled insane and then sanctioned in hell.

A stereotypical med munching fiend,

Rejected, neglected, diagonally leaned,

Forgotten by friends who pretended to care,

Forsaken and shunned by contemptuous glare.

Insanely aware that the voices you hear,

Send messages out, you are something to fear,

The truth of the matter is stigma is worse,

Than any dark mood you can put on this curse.

So don’t let the haters dictate who you are,

Stand tall and fly high, always shoot for your star,

You may have an illness, but there’s no excuse,

For the git’s of this world to unleash their abuse.

So challenge consensus, be better, be bold,

Because there are gifts that you need to unfold,

Now honour the person that lives in your skin,

And never give up, or the stigma will win.

© BB - 14 Oct 2020

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@bipolarbunny

Thanks! I also find it useful to write the negative. I just share less of them 🙂

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@bipolarbunny

Stigma = more @bipolarbunny gold!

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ohhh thank you my @bipolarbunny you are helping me to understand my mr shaz more

ohhh my poor darling , i wish i can help him more

love your poems

love your time in caring for others

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Oh I love this BB, I am so glad you are able to put into words what we feel.

Thank you @bipolarbunny 💞

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