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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Thank you @Silenus for your caring gentle hugs xxxooo

I so need them today. I am wanting to run away because of my problems at the moment. Can't deal with life at the moment.

I wish life wasn't so hard. my head is telling me to go, to pack and leave forever. my head is telling me to self harm, to get help, to scream, to cry - my heart is telling me to stay,

Maybe i need to chat again to lifeline, sometimes i feel like i ned to run away and be rescued. oh thats a stupid idea isn't it.

I am so sorry, I am changed the topic by me writing on here about me. i am sorry @Silenus

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Hi @BlueBay Lifeline sounds like a good idea, then check in with us later to tell us how your going

take care of yourself

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Please @BlueBay - worry not. This thread is called "Writing As A Form Of Therapy". This thread is for anyone and everyone...

We are writing as a form of therapy now, yes?

More gentle hugs heading your way @BlueBay

I could tell you that it's natural to want to run away from it all. It is.

That you are resisting the urge to run is a good thing to me @BlueBay ... and you are writing poems from the heart that beautifully communicate what you are feeling...

These are actually really healthy responses. I applaud you for your ability to hold things together and still explore your self...

As numerous others have said, I believe that sudden changes to meds can be a less than pleasant experience...

I wish I could say more than just hang in there, but hang in there. I think you have already achieved some great wins...

It isn't always pretty, us navigating our way through, white knuckling it... but it's worth it...

Hugs hugs hugs... 🙂

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Dear @BlueBay

You are very thought of here.....

Can you just keep on writing?

It's so hard........you are not alone.

Sweetheart.

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Hi @Fancy_Pants

I can't ring Lifeline. Just can't at the moment. I may chat online tonight.

I have so many negative thoughts going through my head. What do I do? do i listen to my head or my heart.

i will keep writing on here like @PeppiPatty has suggested. it's the only thing that i feel okay to do. i need the support at the moment.

Thanks @Fancy_Pants

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I'm sorry @Silenus and @Fancy_Pants

Bloody husband!!!!

Instead of asking me how my session was this morning or even during the day or even asking me about our finances - he is worrying about the closet in the hall way that has so much shit in it. He says to me 'we need to clean this cupboard as there is so much stuff we don't use' WTF what about asking me how I am; or how was my session today.

NO just ignore me completeley it's okay I can do this alone, i don't need anyone; WELL I AM NOT OKAY AND I HATE BEING ALONE

Sorry for my rant

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@Silenus - i can't help but worry. I am so stressed with no money in our account. We are in negative in 2 accounts. I am so scared that we won't be able to pay our mortgage and then we'll lose our home. need to sell it now.

so much to worry about, i can't handle it anymore. i feel like i am going to explode.

I am back on my meds. You say hang in there - what if i can't.

tears are flowing and i want to go away.

thanks so much for your hugs again.

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This is a poem reg. my husband

Dear hubby

you sit around and think it's okay

just because we live by the bay

you always think things are fine

but we are hanging on a line

you never ask me if I'm okay

and I just wish you would say

hey just come and sit near me

and let's talk about how you could be free

but no you ignore me everyday

i wonder what I've done today

everyone blames me for not talking so much

but i think it's you too that can't talk in a rush

i feel that you blame me for our issues

but just wait while i grab the tissues

you are quick to say oh it's not me

but then you won't sit and chat with me

If only you knew how hard my life is

i sit and cry every single day

i have visions of my abuse

i feel so dark with my depression

and i feel sick in the stomach with anxiety

but how would you know

you don't ask

i just wish you would listen

and our lives would glisten

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It is lovely that you are using the support on here and I encourage that you continue as it is a form of therapy. In addition, it is also important to speak with Lifeline or other 24-hour support service ito discuss the "negative thoughts" you are experiencing. Can I encourage you to ring and speak to a counsellor and you can also stay with us throughout the night? Have a think about what you think you need at this point.

Regards

Sylvester

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Hi @Sylvester

I went to Lifeline and chatted online. I am sorry i am not in a good headspace, really bad. they were concerned for me and wanted me to go to hospital. But i can't, my husband and kids think i am fine, i am scared to tell them for fear of them not believing me. i am hurting so much inside. I wish my GP had of put me into hospital last night when i asked him, but he said he couldn't that my psych has to.

i am sorry, i am writing this on the wrong post.

i think i will call my psych on Monday and see what he says. I am feeling so bad, horrible negative thoughts and so many plans in my head of what i want to do.

i am sorry

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