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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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DEar @BlueBay

I'm thinking of you. It's terribly hard not have a loving Mum and I never ever had one either.

I'm keeping myself busy with trying to get into a writing course. Ask @Appleblossom how much I've been writing about that.

My brother has been writing to me to say just keep on taking care of only you.

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This is how I feel tonight -

I hate the hole I'm in
It feels like trash in the bin
I try to get out
No one hears me shout

I scream I cry I punch
Why didn't you make my lunch
You never believed me
I wish you could see
That I was a child and that's me

I sit here and cry
For I wish I could die
To ease the pain
So I guess you gain
To not see me anymore

I wish I could scream
Out your name
Or is this a dream
There is so much shame

For now I'm stuck
In this rut
Of darkness
No light to be seen

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Re: Poem - Head Room

i like the image of the cannonball @GonePirate

One of my few pleasant memories is climbing a cannon when my dad was still alive and trying to work out the seriousness in both my parents when they said it was used in war. I was about 10.

how old is your son?

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Dear @BlueBay and @NikNik @Appleblossom

@BlueBay dont worry, you will be good now......

@Appleblossom remember last year when I decided I didnt need all this meds and went down on them ?? Then I'm getting all these messages from Sane Forum about being concerned about me from modertors and my online friends......

on top of cutting down on meds, I had a prticualrly bad GP and didnt read her instructions and really messed up. My husband dragged me to the Doctors and I was put on the proper stuff.

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@Appleblossom my son will be 7 in july

hes growing up too fast if you ask me

slow it down down down hahahaha

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yes I remember @PeppiPatty

everything went topsy turvy for a while

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Well he is the right age to climb on old disused cannons and not know anything about war and have fun times with his dad and picnic in the park.

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You peeps are all awesome... loving the support and the creativity...

Hugs to you all... 🙂

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I feel a grip on my neck

its getting tighter by the minute

my breath is slowing

i don't know why

i feel like caving in

does anyone care

my heart is aching

well you cares anyway

i am a no one

can't you see

i just want to be me

and who is that?

i am living a life

i don't want to be

but no one cares

cause it's just me

if only i could reach out

then today would be differnet

i don't know

what am i saying

nothing makes sense

but do you care

i will try to be better

that's all i can do

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Gentle caring hugs @BlueBay
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