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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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@BlueBay 💙💙💙💙💙💙

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thanks @Maggie

i keep reflecting about my birthday and lack of love from my parents.

it hurts

i know i have a beautiful family of my own

and a granddaughter that i so much love and cherish

but ...... there is still something in me that is very disappointed and the feeling of unloved is really getting to me

i just can't work it out, maybe i never will.

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It’s only a teardrop

So fragile and so small

Its only a teardrop

Why can’t I let it fall

Maybe it’s a symbol

Of pain deep down inside

Maybe it’s the pain

I still prefer to hide

I know if I let it leek

It soon becomes a creek

With memories held behind a dam

Soon flooding down my cheek

Thought tears are flowing from my eyes

With rivers soon to start

I feel they come not from my eyes

But come straight from my heart

Its only a teardrop

Why can’t I let it fall

I guess because deep down inside

Its not small after all.

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peace

all around me

in my heart

not torn apart

farewell my friends

take care x

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@Former-Member

Are you ok?

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Hey @Former-Member I'm a bit worried about you after what you posted. I'm sending you an email to check in 🌻

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@Maggie beautiful words hun

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Hi @Snowie @Former-Member

I'm good, thank you. I feel peaceful and a little sad. I thinking about having a break from the forum and I wanted to leave with a little poem of peace.

I'm listening to Welcome to Wonderland:

Welcome to Wonderland
We've got it all
Potions and pastries that make you grow tall
Forests and cottages, castles and cards that can talk
Welcome to Wonderland
Look where you're at
Maddest of hatters
The Cheshire Cat
Magical cabins and lovely white rabbits with clocks
Dancing through a dream
Underneath the stars
Laughing 'til the morning comes
Everyone that leaves has a heavy heart
Oh, Wonderland I love
Welcome to Wonderland
I'll be your guide
Holding your hand under sapphire skies
Let's go exploring or we could just go for a walk
Welcome to Wonderland
Where should we go?
There's a tea party along down the road
Make an appearance and maybe they'll sing us a song
Dancing through a dream
Underneath the stars
Laughing 'til the morning comes
Everyone that leaves has a heavy heart
Oh, Wonderland I love
Nothing around here is quite
As it seems
Not sure if anything is real
Or a dream
And the only thing sure from the start
Is the song that's inside of your heart
Don't let it leave
If this was a dream
Then at least I've got
Memories for when morning comes
Now that I must leave with a heavy heart
Oh, Wonderland I love
I love this song 💛 xox

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Pretty little girl with light brown hair

Dry all those tears people are starting to stare

Come take my hand and put on a smile

No one can know your emotional turmoil

Take all trauma and bury it down deep

Don't let it show or people will speak

They will tell you your bad

Your hurt is not real

So dry those tears

Put on a smile

Bottle up your turmoil

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DEPRESSION
To be but a worm
where few can see
Burrows of travels
no purpose, no sleep
Its dark 'off the grid'
and the light really hurts
if one dares lift the lid
A scurry to safety
interpreted wrong
They bought no comfort
Just judgement, no song
They never stay
and their motives unclear
Do they know what it's like
Hidden from love
A catch-22
the surface or mud
Apart from their love
I have all I need
And when i die
I'm already buried
~ Blackdog
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