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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Re: At War With Yourself

Hi @BlueBay

I am having some trouble and losing my messages here but that is a powerful poem - the circumstances are certainly different but you could have been writing about my mother - it really struck home

I had a vision of frozen flowers - I would have loved my .mother if she let me

Our mothers are the losers here - they never knew us

You are a strong and courageous woman BlueBay - believe us when we tell you - we can see it

That's great writing - keep it up

Dec

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Re: At War With Yourself

Thsnks for your support @Owlunar ❤️❤️

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Re: At War With Yourself

If the lights go out

i won't survive

never again

will I see

the despair

in others eyes

when I wake

never again

will I search

for reasons

to keep alive

when I wake

never again

will I walk

in darkness

to search light

when I wake

if the lights go out

i won't survive

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@Former-Member 💜💜

Beautiful words

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In Sanity

In Sanity

The lived experience of being insane

In a sane world
Is indistinguishable from being sane
In an insane world.

22nd July, 2020.

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Just thought I would share a writing piece I did recently.

My head demons

My head demons attack me everyday
But nobody sees the way that they behave
Everyday they do the same things
Slowly tearing me down little by little
At first I had strength
I could ignore their existence
But life is cruel
Beating me to the ground repeatedly
My strength is all but gone now
But nobody knows it

My demons do not hurt me physically
Nope they are more skilled then that
They got into my head where they can say what they like
They got into my head where they can play with my thoughts
They got into my head where they can mess with my emotions
Everyday I hear them
Why did you do that
Why did you dress like that
That person just looked at you bet they don't like you
Why did you talk to that person bet you annoyed them
You're out alone, what were you thinking don't forget to check behind you, you never know who might be there.
Everyday they use thoughts and memories against me
Home alone.. remember that time you were attacked at home
Your partner is late... he's probably hurt
Dropping your son off to school.... don't forget to kiss and cuddle him it might be the last time
Everyday I struggle to control my emotions
Happy your partner is home... let's be irritable for no reason
Feeling content... how about we get angry over something small
Focused on something important that needs to be done... let's have a complete meltdown over a small detail
Everyday my mind goes through this torture
Everyday the demons in my head try to bring me down
I know they want me to give in
I know my strength is all but gone
But I know I have a reason to keep going
It may only be one
And for some, one is not enough
But this one reason is all I need
I just hope i harbour enough strength to keep myself standing.

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picture perfect

perfect life

life forgotten

forgotten dreams

dreams lost

lost mind

mind me

me dead

dead

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Hi @Former-Member ,
Such powerful words in poetry and I love how poetry and all arts allow for space to reflect feelings and thoughts. Just wanted to reach out and let you know we appreciate you being around and safe. Please don't hesitated to reach out to the crisis services such as Suicide Call Back service 1300 659 467 or Lifeline on 13 11 14 if you need to.
That being said, thankyou for sharing your feelings
Radius

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tick
ticking away

tick tock

all prepared

tick tock

where do I go

tick tock

hide and lay low

tick tock

forever leave

tick tock

never forgive

tock

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You forgot my birthday how dare you?

you are acting strange to me, why?

What have I done this time?

you are supposed to be my mum

you don't call me anymore

well I have feelings too

and I really don't care anymore

you've hurt me so many times

parts of me is hurting

parts of me doesn't care

i bet you don't forget the others

oh no that's right you don't

and in a few days it's your turn

shouid I forget yours

I really should to show you

how much pain you've caused

but I won't forget your day

because I'm not like you

I'm just a better person

that you don't like me too

I really don't understand how

you have gone through this week

and not know it was my birthday

well I don't care

you only care about the others

sll the time that's what you've done

you've left me out all the time

I think you don't love me anymore

because of my childhood abuse

it really wasn't my fault

but maybe it was

I don't care

but I do

I really don't care

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