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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Re: Poem - Oblivion

@Silenus I really enjoyed this poem it's beautifully crafted and very relatable. Keep up the good work.

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Thank you so much, @Imogen ... the connections we make with our words are so important...

My words to you,
Your words to me;
My words to me,
Your words to you...

Each of these dialogues and monologues help to shape us, by exploring who we are... the words we speak inside our heads are a large part of what makes each of us uniquely us... along with our emotions and our chaotic subconscious...

Much love and respect...

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Re: Poem - Oblivion

I feel the sting

I feel the pain

The dreaded fear

Has come again

I cannot run

I cannot hide

It lurks within my body mind

I hardly see the one I was

Wrestling has come with quite a cost

No turning back

My path is set

But I would run

No need to bet

My words are now

Received by few

For I have now

A different view

I stand alone

I’ve drifted far

The wounds of life

I bear the scar.

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

cold smooth grey

strong solid hard

a hairline crack

barely noticable

with the naked eye

swaying gently

and with time

the crack grows

humid

little flecks

of water

slowly

eating away

the strength

within

no warning

no way

to support

collapse

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi @eth @Appleblossom @Maggie @Silenus @Sans911 @Former-Member @Imogen

So good to read your poetry. I find there is something about poems that seems to help us speak more deeply, possibly surprising even ourselves.

I am in a quiet time at the moment. But just wanted to stop in to say hi, and also to @Exoplanet.

Hugs to all.

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

@Mazarita It’s nice to see your name pop up when you can.

Yes, I agree. Poetry, like music, goes deeper than other use of words. I don’t know why.

Sending some 💞💞💞💞💞

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Hi @Silenus @Mazarita @Maggie @Former-Member @Imogen and anyone else reading here.

In the beginning there was the Word

And the Word was the God

How would you live if your Word was your God?

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It might depend on what Word, or what God you understand, plus, where is the beginning? if there is a place for understanding spirituality @eth . A huge question, thought provoking.

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Hey @Maggie Mags I don't mean a god with a persona from any religion. I'm def not christian myself, nor do I follow any particular religion or theory about when the beginning of the world/humans might have been. I don't believe it's up to little me to define any of that stuff. What I meant was if our word was actually what we valued as much as anyone values their concept of 'god'. One friend of mine believes it means 'good orderly direction' ... each to their own with respect. I'm just an old pagan myself! Which to me just means a person of the earth.

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@Mazarita

Good to see you.

@eth

Good Orderly Direction ... hmmm ... could be alright, but what about when I am messy? lol Sometimes nature is messy and I believe that can be good. A lot depends.

There can be a lot of emphasis on promises, but that is different.

@Maggie

@Former-Member

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