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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Hi @Former-Member and thank you for your positivity!

You have hit the nail on the head CPSTD is truly an invisible disease!! For me it was just as invisible to me as it was to others as it was my "normal" and there was no comphrension that this wasn't what was happening in every family.

It truly is a struggle and I completely agree it is a lonely path. This may sound bizarre but one of the unusual places I've found CPTSD support is actually on instagram. I'd be more than happy to share a few accounts I've found helpful it that's ok by the moderators.

With writing a book it's very poignant you using the word stresses and energy. That's the beauty of writing a book about CPTSD is that you get to vent the stresses and try to find word for that energy drain that other people just don't understand. Write it. Write it all!

How do I cope? I made a deal with myself to write every day for a set amount of days. Now here's my golden nugget I've discovered along the way ... Some days I can only fathom a word! Other days the words take over and I've written five pages. I don't set a time for that very reason that I didn't want it as a stressor. The thing along the way is that writing this book has become the one thing that doesn't drain my energy but more reflects the energy of the day. It's weird when for me sometimes getting up is all I can do and doing every single thing is so much effort but writing hasn't drained that effort. Please let me know if that doesn't make sense and I'll try and explain myself better.

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Thanks for your reply @-Liz-

Yes, it makes sense.

Do you have a thread on the forums?

If so, perhaps you can tag me there, if you like.

Or do you join in wherever?

I used to write my thoughts down, now all I can do when overwhelmed is deep breathing. That helps me to relax at times.

😊

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And, yes I’m interested in the places you find support.

Have a think about getting your book published too. 👍🤔😊

I think it would help others to read about your experiences and know that they’re not alone. @-Liz-

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Might catch up tomorrow @-Liz-

Night night. Sleep well. 😴

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Ive been watching this thread for some time. I write as it is my happy place, when my moods allows me. I don’t do the diary thing because of possible rumination. Discipline to write or do anything much when low is nearly impossible. Much of the time I function at a high level until I don’t. At these times I appear normal even though officially I am disabled.

Most people don’t understand. The ones who do are precious indeed.

I am halfway through my second book. Everything now progresses so slowly. Time has been slowed to snails pace. When I feel good the pain of this change of pace is agony. The I dip a bit and don’t care. So on it goes.

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I'm still just navigating the site @Former-Member so I don't have a thread as yet.

Do whatever gets you through! Day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute!

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Welcome to the forum @WriterMelb and @-Liz-

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@BlueBay I admire your dedication to you family! I'm going to play devils advocate so please don't construe it as me telling you what to do. If your doctor admits you (which sounds imminent) you won't be working, you won't get paid, you will be in a worse head space and it puts you in a much worse position moving forward if someone sections you to hospital rather than you admitting yourself to hospital. If your doctor makes the decision for you you will not be in the driver's seat as to when you leave hospital compared to if you admit yourself. It sounds like you have a living family surely they want to see a healthy and happy parent. Consider if you knew they were going through the same problem what advice would you be telling them?

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Thankyou @Appleblossom

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I'm just wondering... where do i go from here... now that i know the truth ... it's become a journey of very few (good) options ... i must say...

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