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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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@NameUnknown

@Sans911That last poem is powerful and beautiful. As was the one before, but that one frightened me for your safety. Please keep sharing and writing.

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Poem - The Rains Came

This poem, written just now, inspired by the words of my fine fellow journeyers...

It focuses on grief, on survival, on learning how to live and love again... I know... us poets put a heck of a lot of stuff between the lines... anyhoo... hope you enjoy... I feel it captures a mood of sorts...

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The Rains Came

The rains came
Such infinite sadness from the sky above
There was no respite to this miserable state
Crying, the world was washed clean

The worms, they fled the inundated earth
No more safe haven, now watery grave
Only one way for them all to try to save
Life

Seek shelter where one can
Even should the sun come out
And in a brief brilliant moment
Bake you where you lay.

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@Sans911- so beautifully and poetically captured... thank you for sharing.

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Hugs, @NameUnknown...

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Thanks @Appleblossom and @Silenus,
Having trouble lately coping with thoughts

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Hi @NameUnknown

Blasted bloody things, thoughts... well, sometimes anyway. They have a way of getting out of control on us, and we worry at things, obsess about past hurts, pick at old wounds, and generally marinate ourselves in guilt and misery in the process...

I want to know who the dumb bugger was that thought it was a good idea to think so much!

But all jokes aside, there is nothing worse than being at the mercy of our negative thoughts and emotions. It is so hard to see that it will get better.

We think our thoughts, then think some more,
I think, you think, is anyone thinking of keeping score?
The more we think, sometimes the more we suffer,
Would silence not be a much better buffer?

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@Silenus,

Lately I wish my head was silent or at least just has my thoughts but my brain process thoughts from me and three others and I always have a constant noise in my head from alters and it get unbearable sometimes. When I was on my meds the noise went away and I thought it was great till my meds interfered with my ability to raise my son so I did the one thing your not suppose to do and went cold turkey, i stopped taking them all and Ive been almost six months without them I have the noise back and my anxiety levels are high but I am there for my boy.
My past is another thing i wish would stay away but my bio male creator likes for me to relive my torment every 6 to 12months while he appeals terms of his parole the should have put him in a cell and welded it shut.
And now i am gonna find my teddies and read a book or something to settle down but i do wish it was easier

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hi @Silenus

i like those words, they flow so nicely...I hope you dont mind me adding to it?

...and yes, at times we think silence would be something to adore,

but then we realise our thoughts are much more than a psych's z-score,

we can all find value by exploring our extraordinary thoughts,

even if our retort is at times fraught by an extremly deep z-buffer.

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@NotLabelDefined 🙂

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The reality is that reality is so fluid and open to interpretation that I wonder why we are so caught up in its momentum...

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