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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Re: Poem - A Poem in the Sand

Hi @NikNik! Feeling the love...

How have you been? Sending hugs and happy vibes your way. 🙂 🙂

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Re: Poem - A Poem in the Sand

Wow @BlueBay. That's huge news! Congrats on the impending nonna-hood.

Having just recently moved myself after buying a house, I feel your pain... hahaha... boxes everywhere...

I swore last time that I moved was going to be my last, and that I would just do it like the gypsies do... build a big bonfire, burn all my stuff, and start fresh... hahaha...

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Re: Poem - A Poem in the Sand

It's always great to see a familiar face 🙂

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Thanks Silenus ..... really appreciate it ..... 🤗

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Another day has gone
my mind keeps holding on
memeories of yesterday haunts me
but im trying not to let them defeat me
I struggle to live
yet I still continue to give

black are my wings
seared from a range of things
produce a fake smile
but is it worth while?

Fear of you and me
fear of others
thats invisible to see
now how can that be


im a lost soul
travelling but nowhere to go
lost with too mnay thoughts
too many that haunts

I cant pretend im ok anymore
I cant fake it, just shut that door
im hopeles, helpless and im scared ill never get better
my pain is killing me
I wish I could just be set free

locked in a prison with no escape
where my weary soul will reside
theres nothing left inside
the fate of my soul is long gone
for I have done too much wrong

the walls close me in
my pain sings
sings so loud but no one can hear

ive lsot my friends
what have I done
ive lost my family
where have I gone wrong
her voice got quieter
the nights got longer
fading away, just trudging through the day

this pain, this physical and emotional pain
theres nothing else I seem to gain
except this stupid stupid pain

ive fallen apart, im barely breathing
how can this heart keep beating
when theres no healing
a loneley girl with vacant stares
screaming inside but no one cares
my tears roll down but I cant make a sound
lonley am I in so many ways
lonley are the nights
loneley are the days

she sits alone
alone at home
where the screams are silent
but the mind is violent
her insecurities hid deepeningand they did indeed eat her alive

her face says happy
but her eyes say pain
thats just how it goes again

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

That's an amazing piece of expression @outlander .... ❣️

Hugs n hugs for how you're feeling Hon ....

💙💐💕

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thank you @Faith-and-Hope

i jsut created my own thread as its one of my coping strategies- it helps sometimes to write it out

this is one of my longer poems that i spent half an hour writing trying to get the msg out

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

You've done well with it @outlander ....

Its a form of self-care.

💐💕

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thank you @Faith-and-Hope

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Hi @Silenus

Thanks for sharing your story with us - I am sure a lot of people write their stories and I never get around to reading them - but yours is right between my eyes - so to speak - and I do understand - though I can never know how hard it has been for you

The analogy you have here of Putting Humpty Dumpty together again rings true - from my understanding the original Humpty Dumpty was King Charles 1st of England and inherited a fractured and rebellious UK - determined to destroy itself - and the people commited regicide - A terrible crime - they killed the king - Charles was a small man with a kingdom too large for itself - and of course "All the kings horse's and all the king's men couldn't put Humpty together again"

It seems a long time since 2011 - a year of change for me too - 6 years - man - a long time to fight an inner war -

Thanks again for sharing Silenus - thinking of you

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