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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Oh ... up and down @Silenus .... 😏

No resolution to our situation yet, so things are winding tighter .... but it's a roller coaster because WH is taking us on highs as well as his behaviour and mindset causing lows .... like extensive travel experiences experiences, and trying to make up for his absences by creating family time around movies n stuff .... all punctuated with his control issues and rigid daily regimen.

Tis what it is for now, and we are still managing to hold things together ..... just, at times.

Glad to hear your news ... and about your work ....

💕

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The mystic looked back to see his past footprints in the sand, stretching off into the distance... looking forward, the mystic saw the blank canvas of dunes stretching off into the distance, ready to accept future steps... looking down, the mystic saw his feet... there was the truth of the present revealed... not footprints in the sand, not sand waiting for footprints... just feet...

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Sounds like quite the merry jig around the May pole, @Mazarita.

I've been staying with my daddy-o whilst I've been working (I work one week on-site and one week from home, then repeat). So yeah, I kind of think I know what you mean about the wonderful and at times very difficult flavour of intense... hahaha... hope it's been great for you though.

Fingers crossed with house and job. Those are not the kind of stresses that you need in your life. Sending my happy vibes into the aether in the hopes that they rub a random buddha's belly somewhere and result in good luck being showered down upon you.

Hooray on the overseas screening. A huge congrats on that front. It's great to hear that the creativity is firing! Woot woot!!!

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Hang in there @Faith-and-Hope. There is so much joy, warmth, love and laughter to be had from those little family times that we create. To me, they are just about the most important things that exist.

Sending de-stressing ommmmmmmmm vibes your way, and of course a big old hug as always.

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Leaving a big "Hiya!!!" for @eth. Many hugs and happy vibes beaming your way. 🙂 🙂

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I guess you could say that me getting back into my professional career of writing for a living is definitely Writing As A Form Of Therapy...

I must say... it's like falling off a bicycle... once you do it, you never forget how... hahaha...

All jokes aside, I must say that it was very heartening to find that even with an absence of 6 years, I managed to hit the ground running and get right back into learning lots of new and complex concepts quickly, and then be able to write about them in a way that the target audience understands and finds useful. Happy days...

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Hi @Silenus

glad you have come back on here 🙂

so nice to see you xxoo

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Hi @BlueBay! Great to hear from you. How have you been?

Sending lots of hugs and hap-hap-happy vibes your way. 🙂 🙂

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So wonderful to hear from you @Silenus !

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@Silenusi am doing not bad.

good news though - i am going to be a grandma (nonna!!!) my daughter and her partner are due to have a baby in october. she is half wy now and is showing. i cannot wait i am so excited. i am going to be a great nonna better than my mum ever was to my own kids.

oh and we sold our house so we are packing our house as we speak. it's a bit of a nightmare. so much crap everywehre.

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