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I just need to share this: for the first time in so very long, today I actually feel happy. Nothing particularly exciting happened - in fact something unpleasant occurred. It hasn't taken my pleasure away. I had a picnic lunch with another mother and our children. We sat in the sun, on some grass near a playground. We initially sat somewhere else, and were moved on for being inadvertently on "private" land, but it didn't upset me. It was a simple, enjoyable time. And I feel happy. I think I'd forgotten how that feels. I feel light. This is wonderful. Wow!
have to watch out for the croodiles up here , but we have lots of creeks and river to swim in
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Unknown userMember
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@Shaz51 that looks divine!!! i can almost smell the eucalyptus 🙂
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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How naive of me to think there could be a world where bi+ching don't exist?
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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Have i been kicked out of the gang @Former-Member nobody talks to me anymore ☺
Joking...
@Bella i dont have many friends Bella. Not sure why. 😊
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Bella is gone @eudemonism
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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Really? @outlander What do you know and this @Former-Member? And @Former-Member ?
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @eudemonism, Bella closed down her account. We are not sure why but I guess in the end she thought she was making the best decision for herself. Hopefully one day she might rejoin the forum.
I think you tagged me earlier today but I didn’t respond. I am still around just am doing it really hard these last few days and have been struggling with very intense SI and SH thoughts and side effects of meds. Spending less time on here and more time just trying to get through each passing minute as safe as possible. Please don’t take it personally. I have enjoyed our chats together.
Nell
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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The way i initially found out was he dormer member where her posta use to be. But yes shes gone @eduedomism
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member si and sh thoughts? What's going on there? I respect the struggles and sufferings you're going through. 😟 for me... it has been a case of waking up and feeling like death warmed up. Big psychical and mental problems for me 😧
And I'm sorry for what i said to Bella. A very emotional person. When it was good it was good. And when it was bad it was bad. I said something. Because i felt my emotions were being manipulated into liking her otherwise facing the consequences. I hope she understands and can forgive me. The Lord will be good to her either way.
@outlander I'm a male and I'm unsure of your gender. I thought you was a male. But then read Bella referenced too you as a lovely lady. I must admit i was a little jealous and insecure. Because i wanted Bellas attention. And felt it was you before me and was feeling left out. I felt Bella liked you more. I'm sure others seen also.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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No im a female @eudemonism People said some things on all angles and from all parties. Its done now. Learn from it and better yourself to not let let it happen on your behalf as in if theres a commotion just stay away from it. Im NOT Saying its your fault at all just one big muddle.
Thank you for telling me the truth. Its ok to be jealous but not to let it control you. Some people just get on better than others.
I can only hope that bella will come back but that is her decision and have to respect what she decides.
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