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Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Hi @Former-Member This is an old post - it explains how medical neglect by Drs (doing no scans or tests) ended with me in hospital - the direct cause of my 1st emergency bowel surgery.

I have no current GP, since mine left (months ago) - will need to find one.

I have lived for several decades with serious physical illnesses (or conditions) -

Scoliosis, causing severe back pain

Sleep Apnea (diagnosed 11 years ago), causing debilitating daily fatigue - treatment & stimulant medication has moderately improved my functioning. Not to anywhere near a "normal" level, for someone without a Sleep Disorder (or a fatigue condition).

A bowel obstruction (tumor), with 3 major bowel surgeries (2 emergencies) - from which my body has never fully recovered.

My digestive system (which was disconnected for 6 months), has not worked effectively for the past 3 years - since my bowels were re-connected (stoma reversal surgery).

I also have Complex PTSD, from more than 2 decades of trauma.

Because PTSD is supposedly an "anxiety disorder" (so-called) - medical professionals have on several occasions attempted to "explain away" my physical symptoms as being "just anxiety".

This has stopped me from accessing adequate medical care, on several occasions.

The "just anxiety" was later found to be a life-threatening bowel obstruction (tumor) - which required immediate surgery. Then a 2nd emergency surgery, 3 days later (when the 1st went disastrously wrong). Then a 3rd bowel surgery, 6 months later to reverse the damage (& clean up the mess).

I now have 2 serious hernias, as a result of the bowel surgeries - wound split, extensive wide scarring, & hernias in the middle.

Have others experienced their physical illnesses (or medical emergencies) not being taken seriously - because of having a mental illness diagnosis?

How did you overcome these obstacles to receiving medical care (if you could)?

Self-care is difficult, when my food does not digest adequately - despite Probiotics & Gastrostop (when necessary).

I must run to the toilet with great urgency (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) - which is a cause of stress in itself, & makes working difficult.

Adge

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I wrote you a long reply (on this thread) @Meowmy

It totally disappeared, after I posted it - that sometimes happens, yet is infuriating.

I don't have the energy or time to re-write it all now.

I said that yes Drs are aware, yet they never suggested anything to do about it.

I haven't absorbed my food properly for the past 4 & 1/2 years, since my first bowel surgeries.

Disconnecting my bowels for 6 months (with stoma & bag) gave me Irritable Bowel Syndrome (Dr said) - most of my food goes straight through me.

Adge

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

@Adge hey, Adge, I started drinking this Chinese flower tea called Chrysthem in cool water help me to detox my system. Think it works to clear my head too.

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Chinese Dates & Red Beans sounds like a great idea @Meowmy

I shall look into it.

Adge

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Hi @Adge

It is Whitehawk, the moderator, here. Sorry to hear that you are infuriated about your post disappearing. I have emailed you off the forum about a small edit that you may want to consider. I hope you are able to repost it as we are always keen for members' posts to appear.

warmest regards

Whitehawk

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

That's fine thanks @Former-Member It was only upsetting & disorienting to not know what happened to it.

Then I guessed, & went looking for an email.

So I fixed it.

I'm glad you still had the full post, & I just had to change a little bit.

On other occasions, there has been no copy of the original post - so I've had to try to re-write the entire post from scratch.

Adge

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

Goodnight @Meowmy I hope you sleep well.

Thanks for your helpful ideas, & for sharing.

Adge

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

@Adge good morning, hope we both have a nice day. Take care.

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Re: Self-Care with major Physical illnesses

@Adge hey Adge, hope your day is okay. I had an okay day at work. My mood was okay today. Now just resting with a book. Drank a hit more water today. Hope it's a good healthy habit.lol. Have a good evening. Take care.

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I'm glad your day was okay @Meowmy Although a fabulous day would be nice (those seem rare).

Mine was so-so - my work with disabilities with people with challenging behaviours is very stressful.

So I'm relieved when I finally get home.

Yes water is good, I don't drink softdrinks much (just water & coffee).

I should read more books again, that sounds a good idea.

I'm just back from yoga class, going to bed soon.

Adge

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@Adge well done re yoga. Have a good sleep.

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