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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't.
I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped.
I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I just can't anymore
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Checking in with you to see how you are going today @The-red-centaur Did you get a bed?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
It is better than nothing @The-red-centaur and at least you are safe. I am really happy to hear you got a bed buddy - even if it is not ideal it does mean you are getting the care you deserve 
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s-jaySenior Contributor
Hey there @The-red-centaur - I'm so sorry to hear you had to take a bed that does not align with your gender identity. That must be a huge struggle on top of everything else. Sadly this is way to common for trans and gender diverse people when accessing health care.
I don't know that there is, but is there anything we can do to help forums-wise to help you cope through this?
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Here are some posters for the wall @The-red-centaur ....... you can have a better view on your screen than the room you are in .....
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Hi @The-red-centaur .....
How are you feeling about that ?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
I am happy for you going home then @The-red-centaur ....
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
Glad you’re going home @The-red-centaur
take care 😊
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