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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't.
I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped.
I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I just can't anymore
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Unknown userMember
Hi @The-red-centaur,
I'm sorry to hear things are so difficult at the moment and you're feeling very suicidal. I'm concerned about you so I would really encourage you to call one of the numbers below to stay safe. If you are in immediate danger please call 000 or attend hospital.
Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Crisis Chat
Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or online counselling
If in immediate danger: 000
I am emailing you to check in about your safety further, so please keep an eye out for that.
Take care,
Tortoiseshell
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
You need to be somewhere where you are safe right now @The-red-centaur Do you feel safe where you are?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
If you don't know @The-red-centaur then isn't it better that you get some help - I know you hate the hospital buddy but we want you to be safe and that seems like the safest place for you if you are struggling so much. I am happy to chat to you too but the priority here is your safety 
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@The-red-centaur I need to head off to bed buddy but will check in with you tomorrow. I hope you have taken steps to be safe tonight Remember those numbers are there to use if you need. Goodnight @The-red-centaur 
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
No need to be sorry @The-red-centaur I was very concerned for you though so I am glad you looked after yourself and got yourself to hospital. That takes courage buddy and I am very proud of you for doing that. As I said last night - happy to chat or sit with you but also want you to be safe - and you achieved that for yourself last night
I hope today has been a little easier on you. Have you done anymore painting?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Can you paint and get some of your feelings out in your art @The-red-centaur Sometimes I draw - usually just patterns but it helps me to focus on the here and now and not worry about other things going on in my life.
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