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I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't. I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped. I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I care @The-red-centaur that is why I have been here with you over the last few days - you matter to us here
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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What's the point in fighting it anymore though.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I can't answer that for you @The-red-centaur - that fight has to come from within you - I get how much you are suffering but you are still here reaching out and that tells me you are fighting inside. Keep fighting @The-red-centaur and we will keep supporting you
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I care too @The-red-centaur. Life changes. It doesn’t stay the same. There are more people to come into your life, even as we have .... and more to see and do ....
Can you go to sleep now ? See how things are in the morning ?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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@Faith-and-Hope the psychiatrist ended making me stay in the waiting room all night til he can see me again in the morning. I ended up calling lifeline and talking through a few things with them.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I am glad you did @The-red-centaur. You need to be heard ..... it matters ......
Can you rest where you are ?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I ended getting a bed at 2am. So got a bit of sleep. My case manager and psychiatrist came over this morning and the plan is to go to the recovery program when a bed comes up there. Which is hopefully tomorrow
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That is great news to hear @The-red-centaur well done for sticking it out there and pleased to hear you finslly got the support. Thank you also for keeping us updated on how you are going. I hope you get a bed in the recovery program very soon
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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So as it turns out I most likely won't be able to go to the program until next week, slight chance of Friday though. I've been trying to keep occupied with the other residents where I live but it's hard. No one really understands how hard it is for me to be alive right now.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thats still ok @The-red-centaur keep hanging on even though it is super hard right now. sometimes people not knowing how hard it is, is ok, it makes for a good distraction and they dont treat you differently
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