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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't.
I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped.
I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I just can't anymore
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
Morning @The-red-centaur i hope you managed to get some sleep last night. I keep thinking about you and hope you’re safe and ok.
BB xx
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Thank you for checking in @The-red-centaur - pleased to see you here and that you are ok 
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
Good to hear @The-red-centaur
take care
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Fight that temptation @The-red-centaur You have gotten through today even though it was hard and you can get through tonight the same.
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I can't answer that @The-red-centaur All I know is that I fight to get through each day and sometimes that fight is an easy one and other days I feel the same as you - but I keep going and you can too - we keep going for those moments of joy that come along unexpectedly or for the person that comes into our lives that makes us smile - or for me it is seeing my little Toby's face when he wants snuggles or Cat meowing when I cuddle her. We all have things in our lives that give us those moments of happiness - it is about finding them and hanging on to them when you don't think you can do it anymore!
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
@The-red-centaur .... you can’t see the “for what” now .... as you go through the stages of becoming healthier the “for what” will start to appear ..... things will begin to make more sense and have more purpose.
Your goal at this point needs to be working through the sh issue and keeping yourself safe .... other goals will grow out of that, and purpose will come out of the goals .....
Just take the little steps that belong to this time now .....
Hugs or fist-bump .... (what do you prefer ?)
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