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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't.
I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped.
I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
I just can't anymore
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Morning @The-red-centaur
Sorry to hear about your sleep. I hate those nights.
Do you have much on today? Can you do more self care sorts of things?
Thinking of you xo
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Hey @The-red-centaur
Im sorry things are so hard atm. Is there anything else your able to do? If your unsafe can you go to the ED even though theres no beds perhaps just being in that safe environment would be ok for now?
Was your case manager able to suggest something else for you?
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Hi @The-red-centaur 💕
Quitting work would send many people to tears, including me ...... you might feel all alone in that, but you’re not ......
Still, it’s more sucky feelings to come to terms with. I am sitting in a coffee shop near the home we are having to move out from and sell up, and I’m pretty bummed about that, and testy too. We can be a bit miserable together this morning.
Is there only one hospital facility in your town that could take you in ?
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Hi @The-red-centaur,
Like @outlander mentioned, if you feel like you need to be somewhere safe, please do consider heading to the ED. You mentioned you are seeing your case manager this afternoon, maybe you can ask them for support around accessing care?
Meanwhile you have everyone here as well - keep reaching out.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
testy = teary ..... ^^^ @The-red-centaur
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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