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Exercise and Goal Setting

Exercise and Goal Setting

Right. I am sure every one of us struggles with various aspects of life, one being physical strength and looking after ourselves.

I know I am feeling like a weather baloon in an El Nino weather event, large and unpredictable. I am unhappy with my weight since being desexed and being on an anti-psychotic which has me feeling hungry all the time and has changed my metabolism. I have gained a lot of weight, already have a back injury and live with chronic sensistised pain syndrome. I MUST start a do-able exercise regime. Gentley Bently.

I know goal setting is important, start small, short. Have longer term goals also important. I have decided to NOT have weight loss as one of my goals per se. Just concentrate on doing the exercise every day. I find it hard to account just to "myself" - if I am under supervision of a physio or psych I tend to do what I set out to do, like having someone to check back in with and 'report' to is important otherwise I shuffle off into "i don;' want to" or "it hurt once so never again" land.

Having given it much thought about what is doabale, what I SHOULD try to tackle without going totally overboard and extreme... And doing myself in before I acheive even a tiny modicum of self-care...

My plan is this.

Days 1 to 14 (next two weeks) Jan 7 to Jan 19 - 15 Minutes a day excercise (plus 15 min walk)
2 days a week in pool (15 mins only) doing hydro exercises and a very small and short swim breast stroke to look after my shoulders.
5 days a week doing a 15 minute Qi Gong set (I learned Qi Gong about 10 years ago and have just found the best little 15 minute Qi Gong video to 'follow" along with.
15 minute walk ever day (slow and shuffley though it might be.)

Days 15 to 30 (Jan 20 to Feb 2) 20 Minutes a day excercise (plus 15 min walk)
Same as above but for 20 minutes for each exercise.
Celebration goal on 2nd February.... Buy a new top.

Next Goals to be advised to make sure I get these ones done. Wish me luck and focus!

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My lovely partner and I are walking between 4 - 10 kms a day at the moment...

She walks faster than me, even though I've got longer legs. My hypermobility limits me - move too quick and I will sprain or strain something...

I did 100 pushups yesterday... yay me! Today, my man boobies are sore... 🙂

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I am so thrilled to see this thread has continued... 🙂 started it in a hypo-must-get-slim-and-fit moment - and then fell off the planet... 🙂

I am still walking most days and some days all he running around I do for my Mum (helping her dress, or shower, or doing her shopping etc - means I am more active anyways.)

Keep on keeping on loveley people! My tribe!

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Hello @MoonGal, it is great to see you

saw my kidney specialist last week and he said to do more gentle exercise , not too much hard exercises has it affects my muscles

and no I have a dietician as well , so i am trying to develop a new routine

Hi @Silenus, @Mazarita, @Appleblossom, @Former-Member

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@Shaz51- likewise, thanks for the hello. Glad to hear you are making a plan and going gentley bentley. Love to hear about the new routine when you have it in place and hear about what works for you.

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Hi all,

@Shaz51, do you have any ideas on the gentle exercise you might do?

@MoonGal, great that you are still walking. The extra exercise in being a carer for your mum definitely counts.

@Silenus, 4-10kms walking, awesome. Do you do the lot in bare feet? 100 pushups, wow.

Due to start the first of six sessions of hydrotherapy next week. It's in a very small class with a physiotherapist. Happy with this addition to things as I can't keep pushing beyond the exercise I already do on my feet due to pain. I'd like to keep getting fitter so doing exercise in the water seems like a way to go.

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how are you @MoonGal

I have been busy, sometimes too much , How about you

take care of yourself

Next week have to have some blood tests to see how everything is and then another appointment to see what i need to do next

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Hello @Mazarita

The dietician thinks walking will be the best so far ,

I have been doing small weights, and some strenght exercises but I end up with very sore muscles

so the doctor thought swimming will be good too

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Hi @Mazarita - wow... hydrotherapy is meant to be great for slow steady gentle strengthening. I hope you enjoy it.

Regarding the walking - yes, always barefoot everywhere I go. Except for airports, restaurants and bars/pubs... people force me to wear shoes there. But as soon as my feet are out of view, off come the shoes again... hahaha...

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Hi everyone

How do you set a goal and actually stick with it? At the moment I can't even set a goal. I know I should be walking daily but do you think I can actually do it? NO. I am struggling with motivation, setting goals for anything including exercise.

And then i get really angry and frustrated with myself for not doing anything - i'm going round in circles.

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You know what I realised?

It's a simple thing...

I realised that I used up more energy beating myself up for not doing the (whatever exercise) than the energy I would use when doing the exercise.

No wonder I was exhausted all the time...

Fighting myself. Hating myself. Berating myself.

@BlueBay - with my walking, I said this to myself - you don't walk with your head. You walk with your feet. I stopped over-thinking it, got up out of my chair, and walked...

I know it doesn't feel that easy, because your head is the one trying to do the walking. Listen to your feet instead. They were made for walking...

I hope what I've written helps. It helped me. Everyone is different though...

Sending hugs and motivating happy vibes your way...
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