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Living with Ourselves

Sophia1Senior Contributor23 Mar 2018, 1:29 pm AEDT

Living with Ourselves

hello @eudemonism @eth @outlander @Bunniekins @Mazarita @Silenus @NameUnknown @Grasshopper3 @patientpatient @soul @Former-Member @Determined @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Friendconnect @Teej @utopia @Queenie @Appleblossom @Zam @perseverer @Janna @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member

First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Zoe7Senior Contributor24 June 2018, 4:06 pm AEST

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@Maggie He is a pretty special little fluffball ...and he definitely gives me lots of love and cuddles

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 June 2018, 5:20 pm AEST

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ha ha @Sophia1

I can tag 70 more members if you like but you have done very well my friend

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Unknown userMember24 June 2018, 10:47 pm AEST

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Has the pain eased up @Sophia1

💜🌸💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 June 2018, 10:51 pm AEST

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@Zoe7 i love that pic of Toby and also the one on his birthday too

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Sophia1Senior Contributor24 June 2018, 10:57 pm AEST

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Hello @Former-Member

lovely to hear from you....I understand the effort that you take to reply..

the pain has been bothering me more in the last two days...

I haven't been to the pool since Wednesday and have not been able to go back on the bike..

I can only imagine something to do with the way I laid in bed whilst sleeping..

so have not a clue really...back on paracetamol. And more boring rest..

How are you managing now?

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Unknown userMember24 June 2018, 11:03 pm AEST

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Sorry the pain is bad again @Sophia1

I’m just chatting with D about her fears. I will try and come back later. Or another time. Im so sorry that I need to go.

D had a scare today. And this evening. Scared me too.

Shes ok. Just needs to get to bed.

💜💖💜💖🌸🌺🌷

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 June 2018, 11:11 pm AEST

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@Sophia1 ❤🌷

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Sophia1Senior Contributor24 June 2018, 11:12 pm AEST

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@eudemonism

We have been without internet almost daily for several weeks for between 6-8hours..today was the longest only coming back on just under an hour ago..

they are working on the nbn...annoying..

I think what you are saying is that you do not want to rock the boat..

I do not like confrontation either..

not agreeing with someone is not being difficult or confrontational..it is of course how you speak..tone of voice..language..manners..

you continue being the way you feel most comfortable and safe...I do not like to think of anyone having to be submissive though..

I am sure that you are quite fed up by now with all of the advice that you receive ...

it is meant with the best intent..

we all want you to be happy..

you are an important part of the forum family...

I shall try very hard not to advise any more..

how was your weekend?

I watched a bit of the soccer Germany against Sweden...

how is Mister behaving?

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Unknown userMember24 June 2018, 11:17 pm AEST

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Will catch up another time @Sophia1

night night 💜💖

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Sophia1Senior Contributor24 June 2018, 11:19 pm AEST

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Am so sorry @Former-Member

to hear about your daughter's fear...so very difficult for you both..

I know that you don't like to discuss it on here..you can talk to someone at lifeline..completely anonymous..

you don't need to give your name even..

I have used them several times since my operation and mum issue..I can also talk about my family member...they really have helped me...it does not make the situation go away...it helps lift the load that I carry daily

thinking of you both..

talk to me whenever you want to..about anything..

bless you both xx

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