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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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@Zoe7

since when have I done as I am told ....?

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lol @Sophia1 - good point...!

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How are you feeling now @Adge?

Have you been out for another outing with the MH group recently? I know that you said they did not say very much...has anything improved there? How approachable are the people who run the group?

I have not had much sleep the last several nights....a long day standing yesterday when we drove down to the city....

today my back has been painful all day even after taking paracetamol...so early night for me tonight...

Do you join in on the friday feast....I know quite a few people do....nice to interract and have a laugh....

well I need to move again...sitting too long...

so boring moving from one position to another....you would remember that only too well I am sure...

take care...keep as warm as you can.....

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Hi @Sophia1

I'm sorry to hear that your back has been giving you pain.

My back pain has been worse recently too - it's been on-going for over 25 years, wakes me up in the middle of the night. It's aching a lot as I sit here to type.

The MH lunch yes I'm still going to fortnightly on Tuesdays - the organisers & volunteers are very nice.

I like the warm welcoming atmosphere - although there are many unsocial behaviours shown regularly, by some of the members.

The other MH thing that I go to is a support group, once a month on a Saturday.

I knew about it for ages, but it took me over 12 months before I finally got to go to it.

It will be my 2nd time going to it tomorrow, so I cannot tell how helpful it may be yet.

Yes I've done every Friday Feast for the past 12 to 18 months, I don't think I've missed any. Sometimes I've started it off, by tagging people & starting a discussion.

Not much sleep is very tiring, I know that feeling well (too frequently). I hope you get a good night's sleep very soon, & that your back pain eases.

Yes, I have been getting too cold in the house recently (now that you mention it). It's hard to warm up or stay warm.

Hugs (virtual ones)...

Adge

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A matter important to my heart

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the above post of a herd of elephants in Africa is part of an excerpt from an article...hopefully this works...

I was going to tag many people I have chatted with over my time on the forums....now I will just post and whoever notices and wants to share the story can....

The following is an excerpt from "Habitat Loss: Wildlife's Silent Ki..er and the Central Role Protected Areas Play on Biodiversity Protection in Africa," a chapter written by AWF's Vice President of Conservation Strategy, Kathleen Fitzgerald, in Island Press' new book Protecting the Wild: Parks and Wilderness, the Foundation for Conservation.

Sitting on the banks of the Olifants River in Kruger National Park, we watch as over 60 elephants gather in the river. They are cooling themselves, drinking water and spraying themselves with moist river sand. The herd comprises all ages—an awesome assortment of sizes. The matriarch, an enormous female, starts walking downstream and all the elephants slowly follow. The terrain is steep, rocky, and variable, but the elephants navigate their way in single file. Along the bank is an area of sand that slopes down toward the river. When the matriarch approaches the top of the bank, she looks down, leans onto her back knees, and slides down. Imagine a three-ton animal sand-sledding. It is incredible to watch; the scene makes it hard not to imagine hearing an anthropomorphic “Yee-haw” coming out of their mouths. We sit in awe watching as each elephant in turn follows the matriarch’s action and does the same.

When one of the baby elephants followed follows suit, rather than sledding easily down like the others, she was forced into somersaults by the river bank’s steepness and rolled down, spiraling like a tire going down a hill, and landed at the bottom on her back with her legs flailing up in the air. One of the other elephants trumpeted, and immediately six elephants ran to help her. They protectively surrounded the baby and nudged her over and up onto her feet, whereupon she wobbled off, flanked by her protectors, the collective herd giving an amazing glimpse into the complex familial systems of elephants.

The African elephant (Loxodonta Africana) is just one of Africa’s unique and iconic species threatened by a severe poaching crisis gripping the continent and driven by an insatiable demand for ivory in Asia. The Convention on International Trade in Endangered Species of Wild Fauna and Flora (CITES) estimates that more than 25,000 elephants were poached in 2011, a staggering number. Other evidence suggests the year-to-year figures are much higher. Enormous time, energy, and resources are necessarily being invested in Africa’s wildlife in an attempt to stop the poaching, trafficking, and demand. Even if we stop the current onslaught of poaching, however, viable populations of in situ wildlife in Africa will not survive given present rates of habitat loss. Habitat loss is African wildlife’s silent ki..er, and it needs urgent attention.

The survival of Africa’s wildlife is dependent on large, wild protected lands and requires a deliberate choice by African governments to protect habitat for these species. The range of the African elephant, a conservation dependent species, for example, has declined significantly over the past two decades. Only 31 percent of the elephant range lies in protected areas, which cover approximately 9 percent of the continent, putting the future of this magnificent species at risk.

A similar situation exists for Africa’s four great apes, which are concentrated in forest landscapes in West and Central Africa. The chimpanzee, the most populous of all great apes, has four subspecies: Central, Eastern, Western, and Nigeria-Cameroon chimpanzee, and all subspecies are in decline and listed as Endangered with only 22 percent of their suitable habitat secured in protected areas.

Drivers of Habitat Loss

What are the main factors leading to accelerated habitat loss across the continent?

The simple answer is growth. This includes economic, population, development, resource extraction, agricultural, and international growth—all of which is directly and indirectly resulting in habitat loss.

In the past decade, Africa’s growth rates have been approaching those of Asia. In 2011, seven African countries were among the world’s ten fastest-growing economies, with each having an annual growth rate of 8 percent or more. The African Development Bank projects that by the year 2030 Africa’s population will grow to 1.6 billion—up from 1 billion today—representing 19 percent of the world’s population. With more people and an expanding economy come new and increasing demands on land and natural resources, resulting in habitat conversion and fragmentation if not managed properly...

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@Sophia1 thank you for sharing something your so passionate about

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Yes, thank you @Sophia1 .....

The story about the baby elephant and the sand-sliding is delightful, but the rest of the article is very sobering .....

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@AdgeI

I read your post on the worry room and are you able to report these incidents...

far too many for anyone to have to deal with...

management need to know in order to do something about it seriously...

you are understandably affected by such intrusion ....

I do hope that you are able to discuss this with your professional therapist...

take care as always...

big hug

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@Maggie

will you hear me?

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