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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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@tonys

Too much going on at moment for one of my books..

keep up with that medicine..

know that you are in my thoughts..

your friend

Sophia1

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@Jacques

I will reply another time

solar panel work hard work

look after you

I am trying to look after me

in my thoughts

Sophia 1

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Hello and hugs @Sophia1 , @wordman , @tonys , @Appleblossom , @Jacques

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Thank you @Shaz51

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Hello @wordman . Thankyou for your letter and advice. Hope this finds you in a good space. You do sound like a disciplined organised man of faith , and if its giving you propulsion, . . . . then thats the juice you stick with.

Me , . . . as i cast my gaze around my place, I could be a boy scout poster of what not to do.... By now it should be obvious that

My brain was wired upside down by someone who should have pulled a sicky.......

My report card , as follows. Discipline....... Fail. Responsibility........ Fail. Faith........ D minus.... I survive on a map of pure luck , chance, street smarts , and the good will of others. for me.......

The purpose of life is happiness... and Im smiling ... crook , but happy.

Every thing looks over fed, content, including the cook and workers. They laugh a lot... Usually at me, and I do like playing it up a bit ,, don't tell them. I find If I put my workers in charge of the place, as well as me, they own it , love it, and do a better job than

me ! ..

So I think the formula is, try not to take ourselves to seriously, trade overthinking for creative artistic and lateral thinking, .. . be thoughtful, and when we make a boo boo. own it.

Leave no trace I say. I have been down roads in the past, got to the end of them, only to find they were over rated.

Peace and happiness, thats the road I like.

Now ,..... got any more music recommendations, Still crook, so in bed with stereo cranked.

Hope the week brings you all you need ..... tonys ....... moon base1

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Thankyou for my hug @Shaz51 Short, sweet , hits the spot, Big bouquet of colour to you to , and thanks for all you do......... tonys moon base 1

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@Sophia1 yes mate , I know, and I thankyou, and you are in mine. Tis the season for chestnuts and acorns. . . . Gather for you and yours and let nothing sway you from your purpose.

Back to the deep.. tonys moonbase one

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Awww @tonys ❤️

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I have had to have time out myself @Sophia1 - too much distress and pain to cope with both on here an for myself. I did want to let you know that I have completely re-arranged Cat's room and it is now filled with Clover's things - she loooves being in there, just as Cat did and it seemed the right time (guided by how much Clover loved being in the room) that I made it hers. I have also removed the baby gate that once kept Toby out as he and Clover get on so well. I had it up so Cat could have her own space without Toby going in there but now it is not needed. The funny thing is Toby has barely gone in now the gate is gone but then I am home so he is also always by my side - it may change when I am back to work.

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Hello @tonys

Still in catch up mode here.

I am unsure whether or not you are up and about yet as your health sounds serious.

I don't want to ask a thousand questions.

It is probably hard for you to write and spend too much time on the computer.

I realise that you write to others which is great as this is what you were hoping to find on here when you joined.

This takes up your energy.

You have made friends and many people enjoy your style and humour.

So write when and if you can to whoever.

I will be happy to hear from you when you are able.

Do what Tonys wants and look after Tonys first.

native american flute music ...

shamanic music

11 hours native american flute music, medication music, healing music, shamanic music ....

I like that one the best so far

there are many

some with rain, thunder, wolves..that is good during the day but for sleep the first one works the best for me.

oh sorry I just searched native american flute music.

take care friend

Sophia1

gentle hugs are great to share amongst friends...

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