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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Hello @Jacques

I am so sorry that I have not been able to write to you for some time now.

I always seem to be apologising.

It is the nature of my current life and health.

I send you the warmest wishes for yourself, girlfriend and mum.

I hope that you are still enjoying greatly working on your bike and any work around your home.

Reply when you can

Your dear friend Sophia1

Take care special young man

I think that you have several virtual mums on the forums laugh xx

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Dear @TAB

Hello and apologies for not being around.

I know that you understand we can only be here when we can.

I imagine that you are still deep in the world of wills and navigating much ..........

Write when you can

your friend Sophia1

Take care cheshire cat

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Well I know that there are many more whom I need to write to but my head hurts and my body is stiff as it takes me so long to focus and try to remember everyone.

To all of you I have not written to yet, please know that I still value your support and friendship

your friend Sophia1

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I have been reading your posts to people, what a lovely idea 😊 @Sophia1

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And take care @Sophia1, your posts are many so take the rest and come back to it when you are rested. Can't wait to hear from you again xx

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hi @Sophia1 lots of hugs my friend, i know you have a lot going on in your life and i hope you are keeping on top of everything, remember to be gentle with yourself.

yes things are good with mum, her kidneys have stabalised and she has no other new medical issues, my partner is well, troubles with one of her teenage girls but otherwise going really well. i am good also, some days up and down but i roll with it.

yes still working on my bike it is going really well, i will post a photo for you.

happy to have lots of virtual mums 🙂 nice to have lots of people who care.

remember so many people here care for you yu are an amazing person and friend. stay strong.

hugs

jacques

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Nice bike my brother, @Jacques 😀

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thank you @Shaz51 a lot of work has gone into it, if you had seen the state of it when i started. the bike is almost fully rebuilt

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Hello @Sophia1 thankyou for your message. I'm so glad you're feeling a little better.

I respect your stated need for boundaries and I'm very sorry if I've overstepped. You're lucky to have so many good and trusted friends on the forums, and I for one deeply appreciate the thought and care you've put into corresponding with each of us individually.

My very best wishes

Dimity

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Im always around @Sophia1 had big sleep this afternoon. I tried tagging you a while back , it didn't work.
Im going to hosp Friday morning for thyroid surgery. So thats 3rd Will in Will trilogy. Mine. After fathers and aunts. Lol

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