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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Dear @Oaktree

Now I am sad to read that you are still leaving.

As your friend I want you to do what is best for you.
I will always be your friend and never forget that.

I hurt already not from you....from many parts of my whole life.

Take the time to rest...learn to trust your psychologist and regain strength in the clinic.

I hope that you return only if you want to. You health is very important for you and your family in the real world.

your virtual family send you ❤️ and hold you on your journey.
Much 💗

Sophia 💕

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Thank you for your understanding @Sophia1

I hope that you do understand. It's not you, it's me!

xxx💜

Meggle

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Sorry had to edit spelling mistake..

@Oaktree

I most definitely do understand that you are wise enough to know when you need to step back ... have time away from the forums. I have done this several times myself.
Please know that I support you in looking after you.

You can still explain to Sane if you wish to that you would like to still leave your username on your membership whilst having time away...

No need to decide how long either.
When you feel stronger within yourself...that is the better time to make the decision to come back or to leave..

No pressure to do this

This is your decision and I am not trying to influence you in anyway. I am merely explaining the process in case you were not aware

Most of all...

miss you already...

Do what you want..

Still love 💗 you my always friend xx

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Dear @Meggle

I am very sorry and disappointed that you continue to wish to leave the forum. It really means that I am losing contact with a close and comforting friend.

The 'project' I have been working on is for both of us and I will post the completed details as soon as I can. I believe that you will be able to access the post even as a 'guest' to the forum pages. I hope that it will be of use and assist in future decision making.

Our discussions have been very helpful and positively affirming for me. I have really appreciated the understanding and empathy that you have extended to me.

The “Magic Wishing Well' will continue to give me assurance of how I can be.

I hope, most sincerely, that the choir participation and other social activities, in which you will be active, will be nurturing and sustaining for you, as I am sure that your presence will be for the people you meet and with whom you will be involved.

While not wanting to close the door, as I have said before, despite my own feelings, as a friend, I wish to and must acknowledge and respect your wishes, feelings and decisions.

I do hope that we will have the opportunity to meet again.

With The Very Best of Good Wishes That I Can Offer

@Meggle (Meg)

For Your progress and Future From Here

@HenryX

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Thank you @HenryX

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@Sophia1 @Oaktree

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Sending you a trillion hugs @Sophia1

Thank you for your kind words.

Hope you are ok? Hope you're coping sweetheart?

Thinking of you ☀️💛💚

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Hi @Sophia1,

I'm sorry to hear it sounds like you might've been affected by what's happened. Please know that we are here to support you. I'd really like to encourage you to email us directly at team@saneforums.org if you have any concerns to allow us to better support you.

TideisTurning 🌸

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