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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

hello @eudemonism @eth @outlander @Bunniekins @Mazarita @Silenus @NameUnknown @Grasshopper3 @patientpatient @soul @Former-Member @Determined @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Friendconnect @Teej @utopia @Queenie @Appleblossom @Zam @perseverer @Janna @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member

First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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hugs @Sophia1

hello @Appleblossom , @Clawde , @Anastasia , @HenryX

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Hello @Appleblossom

I have been wondering where you were and hoping all well with your boy. I am pleased that you tagged me. You showed me respect and that I have value to o offer and support others. So am honoured. I am so relieved to see you. I have a connection with you. You and I and our boys. Multi grazie Bella. I know that you will help me to help mimalove. You I and Anastasia. Three amigos. Much love to you both and all of you who have supported me here. I did not expect any.
Have to go now. Might be back tonight or tomorrow morning. Xxx

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@Sophia1 💛

@Appleblossom 💚

@Anastasia haha 😃

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@Sophia1

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Hello @outlander

Sorry that we passed each other again like ships in the night.

I am calmer than I was; still have a way to go.

How is your foot?

I hope that the rest of your body is behaving now. You have had so much of a struggle with your physical body for some time now. Very draining and of course exacerbates your mind health.

Good to hear that you are still working with the horses.

What is it that you are studying? It has been so long since we conversed on forums that I cannot remember.

I have other questions in my mind. Unsure of your family situation now and do not want to say anything for fear of upsetting you.

Keeping my great big doc martins out of my mouth so to speak.

I am not on here for long. Need to limit re my own health.

Miss my friends though and where they are at.

Write to me as much or as little as you want to give me an update.

I will respond then when I next log on.

Love Sophia 💛 yellow heart for sunshine. We actually had some this morning xx

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@Anastasia wrote:

Hello gorgeous @Sophia1

I heard every word and for all that has happened I am so terribly sorry 💔

You are a tower of strength, even though I know you don't feel this way. I brought you a cuppa, one for @Clawde too if you are here? ☕☕☕

It's a tough job being a Mumma. Some days it is just way too tough 😔


Stunning flowers.

Love the cat.

My late cat, who passed away shortly after we moved into our new home, used to do exactly the same as the kitten in the picture. She used to stick her head in the water to drink. No matter that it was not as fresh as her expensive, non stop running water bowl. My first late cat was the same. He used to drink from the drip sprinklers. Always coming in half drowned during warmer months.

I discovered many upturned vases over the years.

Thank you again for helping me.xxx

In particular with mumslove.

💛sunshine for you also @Anastasia just like the sunflowers represent.

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A huge thank you to all of you who helped hold me up literally over the last number of days I have no idea.

I was not in a good place feeling so helpless; lost and alone.

I think each and everyone of you know what I am talking about.

Definitely why these forums work.

Finding likewise souls with so many varying traumas; illnesses; loss and life circumstances which brings us together in a way that the rest of the world who have not sought support on forums could not possibly contemplate.

So a huge, ginormous ............grammar, spelling out of the window at the moment......just rolling rolling thoughts landing on virtual paper.

Back to..... the huge, gi-normous try that; ....gigantic hug for you all to show my appreciation and thanks.

Here are some flowers for each and everyone of you.

@Appleblossom @HenryX @Anastasia @Clawde @Adge @Shaz51 @outlander

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@Sophia1

I know your cheerful imaginative side is hard won through a lot of spiritual strength in dealing with life's struggles.

Tears for those in suffering

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Hi @Sophia1

So sorry that I am late to this supportive party.

So sorry for all that you have been through and all that you will go through regarding your son. Just wanted you to know that I care and that I am praying for you both. I wish that there was more that I could do to offer more support at this time. I see good old HenryX has helped out as has a number of other lovely forum friends. I don't know what we would do without the love, care and support that we find here. Sending you love dear Sophia xxx and here is a little sunshine for you 💛🌻

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Awww sorry for the loss of those gorgeous fur babies Sophia 🤗 Cheeky things they are 😸

It is a pleasure @Sophia1, it's funny you answered when I just couldn't, it was too much for me at the time, so the fact that you were able to is a testament to your beautiful character.

By the time I went back I was "strong enough" to be able to add something that was hopefully of some help 🤞

Don't forget that you can revisit threads when you feel safe to do so hunny. Noone expects you to respond immediately, especially when it's been triggering for you.

You need to fill your cup first.

Remember that.

You're very special and feel things deeply, especially those that you can personally identify with.

Hugs always dear Sophia.

I'm glad I know you 💛🌄☀️🌻

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