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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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@outlander

You do not have to apologise for anything that you have ever said to me..

just this stupid form of communication...

you have and know that you will never say anything to offend me...I know your honesty and how genuine you are without exception...if only you believed it yourself...you are one person on this forum who stands out as being sincere...as I tell my sons this is paramount along with believing in yourself above all expectations of society...

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Thank you @Sophia1 your sons are lucky to have you 💕

Your up rather late tonight though, are you going ok? Did you need to talk about anything at all tonight? I dont mind listening ..

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Thank you dearest

yes I am up late..'

I am so used to not talking...

I know ...i have always just listened...perhaps that is me...weird as it sounds..

I believe that the only way forward for me to be understood is through my therapist. I am just too deep

what about you... I have not b een able to keep up

I find the rave moves too fast...

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I get what you mean @Sophia1 it ties in well with you never having a 'voice' or listened to. I am like that in the sense i listen alot too. I do hope you have a good therapist to help work through things with you.
Ive started to learn how to crochet now but other than that nothing new here,ive always been a crappy sleeper with chronic insomnia so late night chats are a regular thing for me lol.

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@outlander

if I talked to you about an inch of what is going on around me...as in meteorites it would not touch the surface...I do not like to add my woes to others...

therefore I do not talk about everything external..

I talk about my feelings only...

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That is quite alright @Sophia1 you need to feel comfortable with what you say etc and if just talking about feelings is what your ok with then that is more than fine.

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sorry @outlander

my response sounded dreadful

I appreciate your support...

you give so much

my cat has now jumped up

thank you for everything

I do not know where or what but just being here for me is a surprise actually...no more words..

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It didnt sound dreadful @Sophia1 no more words is fine. Ill just sit here with you if you like? Give your cat a pat for me please..

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@Sophia1@outlander@Owlunar@Shaz51@Adge and everyone.

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Hugs to you too my wonder friends @Maggie, @Sophia1

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