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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

hello @eudemonism @eth @outlander @Bunniekins @Mazarita @Silenus @NameUnknown @Grasshopper3 @patientpatient @soul @Former-Member @Determined @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Friendconnect @Teej @utopia @Queenie @Appleblossom @Zam @perseverer @Janna @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member

First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Nighty night @Sophia1

I’m still awake.

Not quite ready for sleep.

Hopefully soon

Have you had an ok day? 💖

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yes okish ...am tired too....off to bed...

night night sleep tight...

catch up soon bella ....

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architechtural design of the Treetop experience of the Camp Adventure recreation park Denmark

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campsite in Norway

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Hi @Sophia1 Lovely pictures.

Yes my neighbour seems very comfortable with me - yes a lovely compliment, my psych said that (about it) too.

I need a 1 Acre yard too @Former-Member I cannot shut out my neighbour's noise (on both sides), no matter how hard I try. They are very noisy.

Not the back neighbour, who I'm friendly with, she's very quiet.

I hope you both had a good or okay weekend.

I'm very achy, all my joints. I've been feeling ill with a virus for several days, so feeling rather sorry for myself.

It's blowing a gale outside, but Jelly cat still wanted to be outside...

Adge

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Beautiful Norway. Still waiting for Denmark pic to load. I have a childhood friend in Denmark. He has invited me over. Would love to go, if I felt better.

Thanks for sharing @Sophia1 ❤️

I don’t get a notification, unless I’m tagged.

Saw them when I was tagged by @Adge

Hoping you are ok. My weekend has been quiet. Feeling like I’m wasting my life away. 🌺🌷

Sorry to hear you’re struggling with a virus @Adge sounds awful. Do you still have to go to work?

You have a cat. I love cats, my favourite. We don’t have one now. I still haven’t recovered from our last cat passing away. 👋🌺

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Sorry to hear that you are feeling physically unwell with a virus @Adge

they always zap energy...

noisy neighbours...

both husband and I are dreading having neighbours when we eventually move...

living on 5 acres has its upside...we do have a newish neighbour on one side who screams at his children...I can't stand hearing that...goes right through me...i think of it as abusive...some people live like that though and think nothing of it...

we have started keeping our cats inside at night now...they are not that happy about it...tough...

@Former-Member

an open invitation to Denmark....keep it in the background....

have you thought of a rescue cat from a shelter? a lovely furry animal to share with your daughter....just a thought...

will add some more photographs tomorrow

night all....

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Thanks @Former-Member I feel very much that I'm wasting my life away too (at least the past 8 years).

So we share a similar feeling, unfortunately for us.

Yes, work tomorrow, at least that's the plan.

Losing pets is very hard, my 14 year old cat Minx had to be put down in October last year (degenerative spinal condition). I've not got over losing her.

Bedtime sorry, goto go.

Goodnight, hope you sleep well.

Adge

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Night night @Sophia1 @Adge

No pets for now Sophia. Couldn’t cope with it.

Thats no good you have to work while sick Adge. Hopefully sleep will help.

Sleep well Sophia and Adge

❤️👋

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Reason I couldn’t think about having a pet at the moment is, because our last two cats disappeared for weeks. One passed away in someone’s yard. The other one was missing for weeks. When found. Had to be “put down”. It still devastates me.

Sorry to be so morbid, just thought I’d explain. There’s more to the story, but I don’t want to upset you (or me).

Nice thought though to maybe get another cat, but I think you understand why I can’t think about it now.

Anyway. Night night. 💜💖

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