catching up

Karen, i am thankful you allow me to be so upfront, i was so scared sayign what i did, but it was the truth, i thought it was just me, but my mother is horrified of what your mother does to you, i have not told her much, just asked for advice.

Karen, it is not a matter of standing up to people, it is you just upholding your rights, you are a woman Karen, you can make your own choices now, your late husband does not control you anymore.

Karen you are very vulnerable at the moment, would it be possible to pack up the girls and just go without a fuss?

Big hugs my angel, my princess

Karen, their is no need to go, i am here as long as you like, you are my best friend and i want to help you, even if that is just chatting.

I am sorry if i have made things worse, please be safe.

please check in tonight to let me know you are safe?

i will have a nap i will be back at about 4pm, you are in my thoughts always my angel. remember you have someone who cares for you deeply, your safety and your happyness means so much to me.

big hugs

Jacques

Hi @hiddenite/Karen,

I've just read over the last few posts - are you ok? I'm glad @Jacques is here for you to support you. As with @Jacques, I'm worried about you. Are you safe?

CherryBomb

@hiddenite

I've just sent you an email. Karen, it's very important that you stay safe and contact crisis support if you feel you are at risk.

Stay safe,

CherryBomb

Hi My angel,

It sounds lke your mother is doing this on purpose to come between you and youur daughters, my grandmother tried to do the same with me, mum and dad. Karen it is important you follow your instinct. Karen, i think the thoughts and feelings you are having in that place are quite valid, i would be having the same thoughts if i was in your place.

From what you told me the girls are really worried about you, i think they would have just as much fun on a trampoline in your new home than they do at the beach, Karen they want you, not the beach, you are their mum.

You are right my angel, the house is key, no one can control you their, you will be your own woman, and i know the girls will love it their.

Karen, the house here, when i got the lights rewired we where quoted $1000, we ended up paying double that, it was an old house and their where problems, i remember you saying it was a very difficult job they had to do on your home. a blow out in price has to be factored in to old homes Karen.

From now on just make it lesson learned and get fixed written quotes, that way no supprises.

Karen, you are not thinking straight with how low you are, just take time to breath.

i told you i would be back at 4pm and here i am Karen, my thoughts are only of you, i am here now until you go to bed to chat, anytime.

hugs my angel

Jacques