JacquesSenior Contributor
catching up
hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.
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catching up
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
Re: catching up
Hi jacques I hope you are still in the car. You don't need to be around the tension and arguments.
Can you distract listen to some music in the car. Look outside are there any birds or trees what else can you see.
Can you here the wind or any animals listen carefully.
Don't forget your breathing try to keep it steady and breathe through the nose don't gulp it.
slowly in and out all the way.
I know you can do this.
keep fighting mm y friend. You are worth it.
please stay safe I am here for you
Can you distract listen to some music in the car. Look outside are there any birds or trees what else can you see.
Can you here the wind or any animals listen carefully.
Don't forget your breathing try to keep it steady and breathe through the nose don't gulp it.
slowly in and out all the way.
I know you can do this.
keep fighting mm y friend. You are worth it.
please stay safe I am here for you
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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No I am in my aunts house, sitting on the verandah, I can hear willy wag tails, a dog next door, and chickens clucking in the garden.
I am taking deep slow breaths, I just want to be with you.
Please don't let me take time away from your children Karen, they need you, I will manage
Hugs and kisses my angel, you are my world.
Jacques x
I am taking deep slow breaths, I just want to be with you.
Please don't let me take time away from your children Karen, they need you, I will manage
Hugs and kisses my angel, you are my world.
Jacques x
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
Re: catching up
Oh jacques what a mess can't you tell them that they need to behave like adults. Or you will drive them home.
make a stand for you and your mum I know it seems impossible but you are all seelf destructing.
do it for your mum if not for you. Your mums health is vital to keeping you safe.
please try for me.
I will be here for you tonight jacques
karenxx
make a stand for you and your mum I know it seems impossible but you are all seelf destructing.
do it for your mum if not for you. Your mums health is vital to keeping you safe.
please try for me.
I will be here for you tonight jacques
karenxx
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Im glad you have found a nice place to sit and that you are doing your grounding techniques.
I feel helpless not being able to help you I never want to see you hurt. I want to wrap you up and protect you.
stay safe
karen
I feel helpless not being able to help you I never want to see you hurt. I want to wrap you up and protect you.
stay safe
karen
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Im hoping that you are on your way home by now. Please let me know when you are safe back at home jacques im really worried about you.
karen
karen
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Unknown userMember
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Oh no @Jacques what a terrible atmosphere! I'm glad you are taking some time to distract and look after yourself. Remember they are both adults and all adults near each other tend to argue sometimes I think and they are sisters lol. I hope that things settle down soon, does your aunt have mental health issues? Was wondering when you said she has paranoid thoughts.
Lj
Lj
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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Oh no @Jacques, sending you hugs 
How is your mum ? hope she is ok
Take care @Jacques
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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I am safe, sorry Karen, too distressed, talk tomorrow
Jacques x
Jacques x
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi Jaques
if you feel like it we could snuggle for a while until you feel better. You could put your head on my heart to know it beats for you and I will keep you safe.
gentle hugs
karen
xxx
if you feel like it we could snuggle for a while until you feel better. You could put your head on my heart to know it beats for you and I will keep you safe.
gentle hugs
karen
xxx
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Jacques please don't push me away.Now is the time to distract. We can talk about the weather the stars and how big the moon has been. Or just how awesome your chicken and chips were.
please im here for you. I can do all the talking.
Karen
please im here for you. I can do all the talking.
Karen
