JacquesSenior Contributor
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Hi my angel,
oh you have done well, 1 down 2 to go, i hope your eyes hold out, if you feel dizzy or blurry vision, please pull over, try to take regular breaks, sit at a park for 5 min, give yourself some time to rest.
today i am really tired, so not much, just talking to my best friend, and thinking of her often.
Karen, you are such a wonderful person, kind and caring, you are a wonderful friend, i am so lucky to have you in my life, Karen you give me a reason to live too, without you i would be lost and may not even be here.
please be safe, take regular breaks, have a chat to me if you need some support and make sure you breath, be so mindful of your breathing today, and please drink plenty of water, it is warm out.
big hugs my friend, you are doing so well. my thoughts are with you always.
jacques
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Hi my angel,
Well i hope your appointment went well and you are resting under a nice shady tree, please treat yourself to a nice lunch, if you need something cool and refreshing i have been having Frappais from macca's you can get chocolate ones, they are really nice. probably naughty too 🙂
please be careful, i know by now you are exhausted, you only have 1 more appointment to go, stay strong Karen, i believe in you, in your strength and your courage, you can make it.
My angel i have been sorting through all of my paperwork for the past 20 years, seeing what can be thrown out, their is a lot of it. It is still staggering to see how much money one spends over time, a little here a little their, it seems to add up.
Please be safe Karen, my thoughts are with you always.
big hugs
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi Jacques
The psychiatrist appointment was ok shaking and hard to talk. But she knows me now and thats how I present. She has suggested that every 6 weeks I go into the private mental health unit for 2 weeks at a time. So I don't wait until im at crisis point.
I don't know how i feel about it. She wants an answer next time a see her.
now I have to drive an hour to get the girls from school and over an hour back for their psychologist appointment. In so tired.
ive had a bit of a break. Thanks for being here for me today.
wow 20 years of paper work that's impressive.
Hope you get a rest this afternoon
take care
The psychiatrist appointment was ok shaking and hard to talk. But she knows me now and thats how I present. She has suggested that every 6 weeks I go into the private mental health unit for 2 weeks at a time. So I don't wait until im at crisis point.
I don't know how i feel about it. She wants an answer next time a see her.
now I have to drive an hour to get the girls from school and over an hour back for their psychologist appointment. In so tired.
ive had a bit of a break. Thanks for being here for me today.
wow 20 years of paper work that's impressive.
Hope you get a rest this afternoon
take care
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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hi my angel,
i am glad your appointment went ok, it sounds like she has a point, if you are struggling so much at lease this will be a way for you to get some down time, i just hope you can get into the private facility next time.
well at least she has given you some time to think it over, she sounds like she is being very proactive.
Oh Karen, you poor thing, 2 hour drive, i do hope it is over quickly, you are going to be so tired tonight, my thoughts are with you my angel, i do hope one day the girls see how much time and effort you are putting into their well being, you are such a great mum.
I am so glad you got to have a break, you do ned to at least take some time out every day, you are doing so much i really worry about your MH.
yes, the paperwork goes all the way back to 1994, so i am computerising it so it takes up less space, 3 filing cabinets full!!!
Yes i got a little rest, i am awake now so if you need some support or a shoulder to lean on i will sit for you 😄 so you can lean on it!!!!!
ok my angel i will leave you be, thinking of you always.
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi Jacques still at the psycologist with the girls.
I did take your advice and got a smoothy from mc donalds. It was nice and cold.
that huntsman
I did take your advice and got a smoothy from mc donalds. It was nice and cold.
that huntsman
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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OMG good for you my angel, I told you they are nice, I am a little guilty of getting one every time I go to town.
I hope you are in a nice shady spot. It is so warm out, we are about to get a severe storm this afternoon so fingers crossed it is not too bad.
Oh my angel, still with the spider, I am sure he/she is long gone, but I do understand how unsettling it is, did you spray some fly spray around? Make sure you buy some big thongs!!!!!
I hope you are in a nice shady spot. It is so warm out, we are about to get a severe storm this afternoon so fingers crossed it is not too bad.
Oh my angel, still with the spider, I am sure he/she is long gone, but I do understand how unsettling it is, did you spray some fly spray around? Make sure you buy some big thongs!!!!!
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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I have sprayed the whole car but there are cobwebs from the guard to the snorkel. Every time I clean them off I get more even around the bullbar.
I have done so much driving today I don't know how the stupid thing holds on.
the girls won't get into the car until ive looked inside first.
yes im hooked a banana berry smoothy yum.
I have done so much driving today I don't know how the stupid thing holds on.
the girls won't get into the car until ive looked inside first.
yes im hooked a banana berry smoothy yum.
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Ok Karen, got to the supermarket and buy mortem professional 1L, spray the whole car with it, it will last 3 months and will be very effective, that will do the job.
Gaga, the poor thing needs a little leather hat and goggles!!!!!
Oh my god what an ordeal, I bet the girls are really jumpy in the truck, it is so difficult, it must have been when you where in the MHU they set up home in your truck. Sometimes a pressure washer will work too.
Oh the joys of the wild life!!!!!!
Oh my angel, Berry and banana, I will have to try it some time. I love banana smoothies.
I am so proud of you Karen, you have made it through another day, please be proud of yourself.
Big hugs my friend.
Gaga, the poor thing needs a little leather hat and goggles!!!!!
Oh my god what an ordeal, I bet the girls are really jumpy in the truck, it is so difficult, it must have been when you where in the MHU they set up home in your truck. Sometimes a pressure washer will work too.
Oh the joys of the wild life!!!!!!
Oh my angel, Berry and banana, I will have to try it some time. I love banana smoothies.
I am so proud of you Karen, you have made it through another day, please be proud of yourself.
Big hugs my friend.
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Thanks my friend great minds think alike I pressure washed the car and then sprayed mortein everywhere
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hey J im so exhausted the dark stuff is so bad I need a way to get this under control.
How is the bike going .
I was wondering if your new plants have survived the hot weather.
How is the bike going .
I was wondering if your new plants have survived the hot weather.
