JacquesSenior Contributor
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JacquesSenior Contributor
hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.
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JacquesSenior Contributor
OH Karen, you do too much, you are definately a busy mum, a super mum.
Please be careful, you are going to wear out if you keep going at this rate.
I will be here tomorrow like i was today, if you don't need help and support that is ok, but i want to be here for you, i will be thinking of you tomorrow, can you at least get some quiet time between appointments?
Oh Karen, it is such a shame you have to travel such vast distances. is their any way of getting doctors and such closer to home?
I have just been wrapping the last gift for my aunt, it is good most of the family don't give each other gifts, only a few, and mum and i don't give each other gifts either, mum and i go on the philosophy of being nice and kind to each other all year round, so their is no need to do so for one day of the year.
We much enjoy good food, and our own space.
i really don't know how you do all this Karen, their is no way i could function doing only 1/4 of what you do, you are so amazing, how you manage i will never know.
Do you have much more scheduled before Christmas? will you get some time to take a break? i am really worried you are doing too much, please be kind to yourself. you are in my thoughts always.
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JacquesSenior Contributor
oh Karen, i will be here all week for you my angel, i will support you no matter what.
maybe just take regular breaks, make sure you treat yourself too, you have accomplished so much.
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Yes, i agree Karen, you need to make sure you only do one task per day, try to spread them out to make sure none overlap.
I know you need to get things done, but if you do not pace yourself you will have another breakdown. i worry for you and your children, you need to be well to care for your girls.
Karen you know i will support you no matter what, i know you are doing the best you can.
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JacquesSenior Contributor
Hi My Angel,
I am so sorry, i just went around town to look at the Christmas lights, mum wanted to look, they where nice, but not many of them, people don't seem to be into Christmas.
Thank you for asking Karen, today i was very lazy, i don't seem to have any energy anymore, i can't seem to do much, i think it is because of my lack of sleep.
My angel, i am so glad you feel special, you are deserving of it and it is a privileged to call you my friend, you where the first friend i truly had, you are so special to me, i never want to let you go. thank you for being my friend and caring so much, you have no idea how much i look up to you, you are so strong.
Karen, i do hope you manage a good nights sleep, i will be here for you tomorrow, next week, next year and forever.
Big hugs my friend. thinking of you always.
Jacques
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Hi My angel,
Well i got very little sleep last night, it was so nice to have you holding my hand though, thank you.
I hope you are going to cope with today, i will be here if you need support, you are such a busy woman, i know you struggle, but you make it through each day.
I am so sorry about last night, i really missed talking to you.
Please be kind to yourself, give yourself a treat for being so wonderful.
My thoughts and wishes are with you my friend, please be careful driving and be safe.
Big hugs
Jacques
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