JacquesSenior Contributor
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catching up
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi jacques you must be so tired to have slept all morning. You've had a very busy week.
Do you know where you are going today for your outing?
Its great that you are feeling refreshed. Thank you for watching over me last night I slept all night which hasn't happened for a while.
Enjoy you time with your mum I'll be thinking about you.
Karen
Do you know where you are going today for your outing?
Its great that you are feeling refreshed. Thank you for watching over me last night I slept all night which hasn't happened for a while.
Enjoy you time with your mum I'll be thinking about you.
Karen
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Yes my angel the week was too much, but I had to keep busy, I was missing you too much last week.
I am off to town, nothing special just dinner by the park.
OH my angel I am so glad youanaged a night of good sleep, wishing you many more.
Hugs my angel, hope we can chat tonight.
Jacques
I am off to town, nothing special just dinner by the park.
OH my angel I am so glad youanaged a night of good sleep, wishing you many more.
Hugs my angel, hope we can chat tonight.
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hope you have a nice dinner by the river jacques.
I look forward to talking with you tonight.
hugs my friend
Karen
I look forward to talking with you tonight.
hugs my friend
Karen
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Yes I hope it is going to be a nice quiet dinner, how about you my friend, how are you?
I can't wait my princess, what are you and the girls up to this afternoon?
What are you doing to distract?
Hugs my angel
I can't wait my princess, what are you and the girls up to this afternoon?
What are you doing to distract?
Hugs my angel
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Got some news, my aunt might be moving in with us, I know it will trigger bad panic attacks, but she has no where else to go. It is mums house and I told her it was her choice.
My aunt wants me to be comfortable with the decision, I know at this point I am having panic attacks every day now, so it probably would not make and difference to my anxiety, but may increase my stress levels.
Anyway it is not my house so it is really up to mum.
Gosh life can get complicated fast.
Thinking of you my angel.
Jacques
My aunt wants me to be comfortable with the decision, I know at this point I am having panic attacks every day now, so it probably would not make and difference to my anxiety, but may increase my stress levels.
Anyway it is not my house so it is really up to mum.
Gosh life can get complicated fast.
Thinking of you my angel.
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Oh jacques thats going to be so difficult. Will you still have somewhere private to go other than your shed.
will you have enough room seeing your in the lounge room. Please tell me your not going to have to be in the part of the house that leaks.
I m worried about you Jacques it must have come as a shock.
I'm playing with the girls at this point im not allowed to be left alone with them im devastated. It just gives mum more power over me.
I hope at least you enjoy your dinner.
hugs
karen
will you have enough room seeing your in the lounge room. Please tell me your not going to have to be in the part of the house that leaks.
I m worried about you Jacques it must have come as a shock.
I'm playing with the girls at this point im not allowed to be left alone with them im devastated. It just gives mum more power over me.
I hope at least you enjoy your dinner.
hugs
karen
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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No Karen, I sleep in the lounge room so I will have no private space at all, even the shed will be difficult, as I have a phobia of people seeing me dirty.
Yes Karen the very Same part that leaks, but it is mums house and her decision, it is not my place to choose, it is her sister and she has always been their for her, I don't want to get between their relationship, it would be so much easier if I was not here.
Yes it was a big shock and I have shut down, I don't know how handle it, I struggle with mum in the house.
OH Karen I am so sorry, I know you would never harm the girls, I hope that just playing with them gives you some quality time.
Yes your mum is very controlling, I hope after your meetings no tomorrow and your stay in the MHU things get better for you.
Missing you a lot, thank you for being here for me. I apologize if I am a bit all over the place tonight, my mind has gone completely blank from today's events.
Hugs
Jacques
Yes Karen the very Same part that leaks, but it is mums house and her decision, it is not my place to choose, it is her sister and she has always been their for her, I don't want to get between their relationship, it would be so much easier if I was not here.
Yes it was a big shock and I have shut down, I don't know how handle it, I struggle with mum in the house.
OH Karen I am so sorry, I know you would never harm the girls, I hope that just playing with them gives you some quality time.
Yes your mum is very controlling, I hope after your meetings no tomorrow and your stay in the MHU things get better for you.
Missing you a lot, thank you for being here for me. I apologize if I am a bit all over the place tonight, my mind has gone completely blank from today's events.
Hugs
Jacques
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Jacques its ok you've had a terrible shock your safe place is being destroyed of course your going to react you are only human who is very protective of his personal space.
I am here for you my friend and I understand.
Stay safe
Karen
I am here for you my friend and I understand.
Stay safe
Karen
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Hi jacques
im so worried about the meeting tomorrow they are coming to the house to make sure the place is safe for the girls. I feel ill. The thoughts and actions are worring me. There is so much pressure.
Im sorry to complain when things are awful for you.
I just need to vent. Already having problems breathing anxiety is so bad its all down hill from here
im so worried about the meeting tomorrow they are coming to the house to make sure the place is safe for the girls. I feel ill. The thoughts and actions are worring me. There is so much pressure.
Im sorry to complain when things are awful for you.
I just need to vent. Already having problems breathing anxiety is so bad its all down hill from here
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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My angel,
try not to stress too much, the girls have lived their for a while now, they have granparents with a nice home, you will be fine, it is just a measure to make sure you and the girls are safe, please try to see it as making sure everyone is coping, as you said the girls are struggling too, as well as yourself, Karen, i do the same thing, make things worse by overthinking things too much, you really need to distract till you go to sleep.
You have nothing to worry about, the girls have a good home, everything will be fine. Karen, if you feel unsafe please go to the ER, i know how badly you react to stress. it would be so easy to do something silly, you need to hold safety till you can get into the MHU, i will help anyway i can, just tell me how i can help.
I know, you have had a really rough start to the year, but i can see some good things that have happened for you this year too.
Karen, please never appologize, you have every right to vent, and being your best friend who better to vent to.
Karen, i have known for a while this situation was comming, my aunt sufferes a serious MI and it is very triggering for me, she has no where else to go, her children have abandoned so she only realy has my mum left.
Karen, try to breath, i am having a bad panic attack too, we will do this together, deep breaths, if you can go out side and take them, maybe have a cup of tea to calm yourself, maybe even herbal tea. speak to me too my angel, if that helps, i am going to have a very long night tonight, so please feel free to vent or get things out o your head, you need a release.
hugs my angel, i know what you are going through, i am going throug hthe same right now.
Jacques
