catching up

Karen tell me whati can do to help?

I know at least some of your stress and lack of coping is due to having no family support, i am so upset with your family not helping you, things would be so much easier with their support.

Karen, what do you think, do you think you need to be in a facility to keep safe? you say you are sturggling to be saf,e so wouldn't a stay in a MHU be of some help?

Karen, please tell me how i can help you be less stressed? i am here for you my friend. unconditionally.

I am so glad i can help, i just don't want to make you think one way or the other, i am just trying to give you as much information as possible so you can make the best informed decision.

It is ok my angel, let those thoughts out, if you have them swirling in your head, they make things so much worse, if you get them out here you can have external input from the forumites here and me 😄

Yes, i know the girls get traumatised, i realize how hard it must be for the girls, but it is a lot less traumatic than if they lost you forever, Karen if you where not here the girls would be so much worse off, no one will love and care for them like you do.

If it is a choice between you harming yourself and going into the MHU, i can garentee the MHU is the less traumatizing choice for the girls.

Karen, first and foremost you need to be safe. for yourself and for the girls. i do hope you ca nsee this. you are the most important person in the girls life, and you certainly are the most important person in my life. please always remember that.

hugs my angel, i am proud of you processing your thoughts, if it is on here, on paper, it does not matter you are getting others to help you through and i am proud of you for that.

That is the right attitude to have my angel, you are amazing, i am so proud of you 🙂

Good night my princess, my thoughts are with you, iwill hold your hand while you sleep, you will be safe. hugs 🙂

Jacques

It is great that you have the idea of "holding safety". @hiddenite That is a wonderful commitment to yourself and your girls. Gently, one step at a time.

Good morning my angel,

I hope you are well today, i am hoping for a quiet day today, i have my day out this afternoon, but that is all. i might go out to the shed maybe later on to do a couple of things, it is nice here this morning, cool, a light breeze and the mag pi's are singing, which is nice, i can hear some sheep and the chooks are singing too.

hugs my sweet princess, remember i am here holding your hand, you can't fall, ever 🙂

Jacques

My angel, i wish i could treat you to a lovely sunday morning brekkie, but i hope this will make up for it 🙂

Hugs my angel