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hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.

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Hi Karen,

It sounds like you're having a really tough night.

It's really important to contact the appropriate crisis service - even if you have contacted them already tonight.

I have emailed you both with the content of our agreement and I encourage you both to have a read of it and keep it for your reference.

Karen, please be safe tonight and contact the relevant service.

Take care,

Nik

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Hi My angel,

I hope you managred some rest last night, my thoughts are with you my friend, you are the light in my life, thank you for just being you. stay strong my friend.

Big hugs to you, be safe

Jacques

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Hi Jacques well the sun is up and the birds are singing.
Im sorry for worrying you .
I appreciate your support
I hope you are feeling a bit brighter today.

yes talking to you Jacques makes me really happy. Thank you for reminding me.
thinking about you

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Well what a lovely start to the day you have, sun and birds, sounds like heaven.

Karen never be sorry, you are my friend and worrying about you is part of the deal. You are really special to me.

I am feeling a lot better today, I have painted all the ceiling in the lounge room. So 1 room complete, 4 to go. Maybe after Christmas 🙂

I have stopped for some lunch then I have to mow, not looking forward to it as it is 37 here today.

Karen, you have so many good things in your life, you just need to remember and hold into them, I need to do the same.

One thing I am starting to learn slowly is never say never, their is always advances I medicine. Anyone who tells you, you can't get better tell them no one knows what the future holds.

Thinking about you my angel, big hugs, stay safe.

I will light another Sandlewood for you. 🙂

Jacques

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Hey Jacques
thanks for lighting the sandalwood for me.

I mowed yesterday it was 33 I was so exhausted and very sun burnt.

im listening Jacques. You make so much sense
big hugs
Karen

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Hey Jacques I was wondering what the name of the game you were talking about for the girls

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Hi My Angel Karen,

Oh Karen the sandle wood smelled so nice, i thought of you the whole time, such a beautiful scent.

OMG Karen, you didn't mow all that yard in one day did you? you poor thing, i have just finished mowing 1/4 acre and i am buggered. I don't know how you mow such a large yard on your own, i hope one day you can get a gardener to do it for you. Well we can both be burned together, it seems i am sunburnt too 😄 i had a hat and everything, but 37 is just too much for the clothes to block out, my cheeks are rosey red.

Karen, please keep telling yourself their is hope, because theri really is, if anyone ever tells you their is no hope, tell them people with cancer where told the same thing 40 years ago, look now, the success rate is 5X what it used to be, same with MI, their have been so many advances lately, new techniques new treatments. Always hold on to what the future holds, i will too.

Karen the game console is a Nintendo WII U and the game is Zumba Kids or another good game is Just Dance kids both games they have to actully dance in front of the TV to make the people on the screen move, it is very physical, if they have a lot of energy, they will be tired after playing this for an hour or so. and it will teach them to dance.

The games are around $30 i am not sure of the price of the console, but you can get all of this at EBGames, their should be one near you.

Karen here is a video of how it all works, just have a look at this before you buy it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frOuj-9eM_I

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Oh thanks Jacques im going to get them one for Christmas I can't see to run my youngest out of energy she just never stops.

im still red today and yes I did mow the acre raked the drive and swept down the decks. There are decks front and rear both being 22 feet total 44 feet. And thats my size feet not yours:)

Thanks for your help j

I know I always do too much.... im my own worst enemy.

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Oh Karen, i hope it helps you little one, i know my cousin has one and she has learned how to dance really well, it teaches them how to do all the proper dance steps, you can even get a Dysney dance game, with all the dysney characters of the latest movies. please check with the store that it is suitable for their age groups. Games have come a long way Karen, not many games these days have you sitting in front of the TV, most of them now are for fitness purposes, you may need to buy an extra controller, if both girls want to play at the same time.

Oh Karen, Naughty, no wonder you where struggling last night, all that work, you really need to pace yourself, try to limit yourself to 1 or 2 jobs per day, it is not good for your mental health if you are worn out physically and trying to work through dark stuff.

Karen i am going to say this, i know you will struggle to believe it , but it is true, you have nothing to prove to anyone. I know you are trying to prove to your mother, your girls and yourself you are worthwhile, Karen you do not have to prove these things, you are a worthwhile person, i know you push yourself hard for this reason because i do the same, it has taken me years to become comfortable enough to not have to prove myself to others, sometimes i stil lstruggle with it, even now.

wow the decks must be really small 2 sweeps of the broome and you must have been done alright i will stop now with the short jokes? i just can't help myself

Have you and the girls got your christmas tree up yet? mine is going up tomorrow morning, i can't wait.

Rest up my angel you have had a big day yesterday. i hope your little energiser bunny has burned off some of her energy, lol.

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Oh Jacques I love your jokes they make me smile.

you know me too well I do h ave something to prove
that I deserve to be here. That I am good enough.
so many things.

how did you get to know me so well.

you mean so much to me Jacques.

You teach me so much about myself.
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