catching up

Hi my angel,

I have been so worried about you, i am so glad you are home safe, i am ok, a little shaky, i had to help one of mums relatives with some computer stuff, they are ok as they have a daughter with the same condition as me, so they are understanding.

Oh my angel, i am gutted too, why does she keep doing this, i was hoping you could packup the girls and leave quietly so you could avoid your mothers venomous words. Does she not see what this does to the girls what it does to you.

It must hurt the girls deeply too, i am so sorry Karen, i so wish i could tell your mother what i think of her.

Karen, my heart goes out to you, you have to find the strength to tell her to stop Abusing you, what she is doing is domestic violence. i am so ashamed of her, she is a bully.

My angel, i am so sorry you have to endure so much, i wish someone could show you unconditional love & kindness. i would like for you to experiance just once someone close to you show you caring.

hugs my angel, i hope you don't mind me saying but you are special to me. you are perfect.

Jacques

Oh Karen,

that is terrible, you do need to tell someone, this is devastating to you and your MH and it is destroying your little girls.

Karen, you need to seek advice from 1800 RESPECT, she sounds like she is scared of you moving into the house because she will lose her control over you. you must not allow her to enter your house unless she adheres to your rules. you need to set clear boundaries with her, and be willing to ask her to leave if she does not follow them.

I can see the impact it has on you Karen, you are still the abused lady, the only thing that has changed is you have replaced your husband for your mother. i am so concerned for your MH if this continues, you need love, support and guidance, not more torment.

i do hope my words of encouragement and kindness help in some way.

Karen,

I am really worried about what she said to you "i will make sure you and the girls never move into the house" i am starting to think now she is trying to push you into a breakdown with taking you to the holliday home you where violated in and calling you names, and trying to make you give up your house to her, i am really starting to think she is trying to harm you Karen.

please stay strong, gentle hugs

Jacques