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My special place

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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@Snowie I’ve learnt to establish boundaries, but I suppose I’m too secretive for her liking. She does wish I was more open. We have always been close, but even loving relationships can be hard sometimes. I hope you sleep well tonight and tomorrow is a brighter day 💖🫂

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@Snowie That seems a good compromise, to have the ECT monthly. I'm sorry you're feeling not 100% safe...sending hugs 🫂

I hope it's not too awful taking your mother to the concert today.

When does your Support Worker start?

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Thanks @NatureLover I hope the concert goes ok too and she realises that I am only going because of her.

My support worker starts next Wednesday.

@creative_writer It's nice that you have always been close to your mum but I think all relationships are hard work. I think, especially with a MI, that relationships are even more difficult for us. Just how much do we disclose, can we trust the other person and so on...

I hope both of you had a good sleep and today goes well for you.

Sending lots of 💕💕

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@Snowie sometimes it’s not even about trust, sometimes it’s about whether the other person can handle it. I slept okay last night, still feel exhausted though. I hope you were able to get good quality sleep 💖

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Good morning @creative_writer @NatureLover

Wishing you both a good day today.

Yesterday went ok except it was long... Got there about 12 noon and didn't leave until 10:15pm. She enjoyed it so I guess that was the main thing.

D went to dentist yesterday. She has to have all 4 wisdom teeth removed. Just booked in to a surgeon for a consultation. That way they can just give her a general, go to sleep, and get all 4 done at the same time. Much better then doing one at a time.

Just sitting down for a coffee. I think today might be a slow day.

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Morning @Snowie. I hope today is a good day for you too 💖. Getting four wisdom removed does save time, I had my four removed one by one.

Sometimes one does need a slow day after a long day. I hope you are able to rest up 💖

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Hi @creative_writer

Have to go up the street but hoping that's it for the day.

I figure D only has to go through the pain once instead of 4 times. That would have been so hard for you.

Do you have any plans for today?

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@Snowie I hope you are able to get done what you need to for today without it draining you out too much.

I’m in bed rn. I’ll shower a bit later, maybe after lunch. I have no motivation

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@creative_writer nothing wrong with bed days hon. Sometimes we just need that down time and time to ourselves.

Just go at the pace that you feel comfortable with.

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@Snowie I’m on hold for SANE, I hope I don’t have to wait long.

Do you have plans for the upcoming weekend? I think I’ll be going out with my family since we were not able to celebrate Eid during the weekdays
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