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My special place

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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I reached out again. When they say 30 minutes they really mean it.

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And you did it @Snowie .

Well done.

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i realise they have to have a time limit for the sake of others, so you just get shut off

im sorry, i think it is better if i just go

thanks everyone again for the support

take care, look after yourself

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thats sucks @Snowie their time limits seem to e getting shorter and shorter now! it use be an hour then 45 minutes and now only half hour. it takes that long sometimes just to feel ok to say whats wrong

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Hugs @outlander @Snowie

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Glad to hear things have been good for you @tyme I am more than third way through the 72 hours with my smoking. Am happy with that but expecting the morning to be really tough again. The mornings are the worst time as I used to smoke heaps in the mornings.

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Glad you reached out @Snowie it is best to do so hang tough you can get through it

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Do you have a plan in place for the morning? @GezzaP The hardest will be to sit there thinking about how much you can't smoke, and you don't have something to replace the behaviour.

When I used to work with children with severe behaviour, I had to train teachers that you can't take away a behaviour without replacing it with something else that provides the same 'reward'.

Can you think of anything?

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Hey @Snowie.

I hope today is a better day for you. I want you to know that you are worthy.

Well done for reaching out even though you got cut off. It’s difficult to do. You are just as important as the next person.

I hope you can find even a little bit of peace in the day.

I understand how hard it is to get out especially in a small town where you know most people and don’t want to see anyone. Could you possibly go for a drive and just sit somewhere in a scenic place just out of town and just take it in? Or do you have any nature walks near you? Or even if you stay in the car. Maybe take your furbaby with you.

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Well done @GezzaP. I know how hard it is to quit smoking. I can’t do it. You are doing so well. I hope you find something distracting this morning.

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