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@Snowie wrote:

My friends son passed away yesterday from an aggressive form of cancer. He was just 21 years old.

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Oh no @Snowie 😞

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@Snowie wrote:

D is a little better and not needing pain meds as much so that is a good thing.

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I'm relieved to hear this...hoping for quick improvement for D...

So sorry to hear the sad news @Snowie Losing anyone is heartbreaking but when they are so young it seems so unfair also 😥 Glad D is a little better but I am sure you would still want some answers. Hugs and hugs and hugs to you all 💙💙💙

💜🎉 was for your D @Snowie …..

So sorry to hear of your friend’s son 😔

It is sad at any age, but harder when it’s a young one. I have a cousin going through cancer struggles with a grand-daughter. It’s tough.

Hugs 💞💞💞

Hi all @Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7 @NatureLover @outlander @Eve7 @Shaz51 @Emelia8 and anyone else around.

D is feeling better but still has some pain. Not taking as strong pain relief but still taking some form of pain relief daily. This of course is not good for the long term. Few more tests need to be arranged so will chase them up. If they can't fit her in soon I will just end up using my private health insurance.

The funeral for all friends son is next Tuesday so will go to that. They have arranged it for this day because it would have been his birthday. Would have turned 22, so a celebration of his life. Have psych too that day so will end up being a big day.

Spoke to pdoc yesterday afternoon. Let him know everything that is going on. Speaking to him helped a little and told me that I need to look after myself more. Hard to do but will try.

Saw gp this morning so spoke to her about a few things. Got my SH checked out.

So I am hoping things will get back to normal soon. Today is really the first day for awhile that I have just been able to relax at home. So am taking advantage of that and doing a few things for myself today. Hoping this helps a little too.

If you got to this stage then thanks for reading!! I hope your day is going ok for you 💗💗

heya @Snowie just popping in to say hi.

What a big time for you ❤️ how is your home day? What have you been doing to unwind?

It sounds like you've been really proactive in caring for yourself and D.

Thinking of ya,

TuxedoCat

PS. My day is good! I've got a little ADHD burnout so I'm trying to let go of expectations around housework, cooking, socialising ect. It feels nice to just blob for a little bit

So glad you have your supports @Snowie and also had some time to yourself today. Such a sad time but nice that your friend's son's life will be celebrated on a special day. 💙💙💙

Glad D is improving,,,and that you could rest yesterday and speak with your pdoc and GP @Snowie

Wishing good wishes for you and D... 💙

Hi @Former-Member

Have been catching up on some tv shows I have been watching. Also been doing a little bit of sewing which has helped. Oh and a nice soak in a nice hot bath. Very relaxing!

Sounds like you have also been able to take some time out for yourself, great self care.

Hi @NatureLover @Zoe7 , thanks for thinking of me 💕

Well done on your self care @Snowie and it sounds as if D is on the mend but I really hope you do get some answers.

That is so sad about your friend’s son. Life can be unfair.

Hope today gives you more time for self care 💜