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My special place

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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@Snowie glade to hear that you are D are back at home. I really hope that you and D get some relief soon. I think you have amazing strength to be supporting your daughter when you aren’t mentally the best. Lots of love and hugs coming your way ❤️🤗

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I don’t think I can afford it either @Zoe7 and am feeling like I’m spending my kids’ inheritance. All very well to get HECS HELP but it will have to be paid back.

Hope you can find a course to do. I’m loving mine. 💛

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haha @Eve7 You can't take it with you so why not spend it on what you want now ...as for the kids - bugger the inheritance I say 🤣

With what I want to study I could just about pay off my house - sooo expensive.

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Yes, well my sister asked if I realised I could be flying business class to London twice a year @Zoe7

Just one subject at a time… but I’ll be 90 before I finish!!!

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oh dear @Eve7 ...it is ridiculous really that the fees are so high - discourages so many...

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Hi @Snowie , so glad D is home and you can base yourselves there while going in for more tests. Sorry to hear D is in so much pain 😞

I agree with what @creative_writer said below:


@creative_writer wrote:
I think you have amazing strength to be supporting your daughter when you aren’t mentally the best.

I hope you can get lots of rest today on the couch... 💙

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Hi all

@NatureLover @Zoe7 @Eve7 @creative_writer @tyme @BlueBay @Emelia8 @outlander @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51

D is a little better and not needing pain meds as much so that is a good thing.

But the bad news keeps on coming. My friends son passed away yesterday from an aggressive form of cancer. He was just 21 years old. Way too young to go through all he did.

Hoping I can support them in some way.

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Awww @Snowie , I don't know what to say. Its so hard to celebrate your own good news about your D, when someone else is suffering so intolerably over the tragic passing of their young son. I'm sorry that you are also suffering the loss, given that it's the son of your friend. On a better note, it sounds like your D is finally responding to treatment. Feeling a little better and not needing as much pain meds is definitely a good thing. Lets hope the improvement continues and that she will soon be able to go home. Does the medical team know yet what caused the issues in the first place? It must be really hard not knowing, and uncertain if it may occur again.

I'm thinking of you and hoping things are as easy as they possibly could be for you as well as for your friend who has lost her young son. Such a difficult time for the family. I feel sure they will appreciate whatever support you are able to provide. But hopefully they have close family members who will be supporting each other as well. Just remember that it is the little things which count. That may be dropping off a simple meal (soup, casserole) for them one evening to ensure they are eating adequately and don't have to go to the trouble of preparing and cooking one.

And please don't forget to take good care of you. Its been a really rough week for you too.

Emelia

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💜🎉 @Snowie ….. baby steps


👋💞 @Emelia8

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@Snowie

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