Being processed Darcy, decision expected by 23/03 but i couldnt upload the ID criteria for part one (dads birth certificate), so expect they'll delay further. I must help dad apply for another birth certidicate. My sister isnt talking again so i have no way of knowing if dads papers are amongst the stuff she took out of the house the day after mum died.
I'm disgusted my siblings are more interested in what they can take from here than spending time with dad.
Have i mentioned the first time Bro2 took dad out - he conned dad into letting him take the house keys, to copy them - even though i had previously said not to. Bro2 boadted later by tx that he'd made x3 copies but wouldnt tell me who for. So, yes i had the locks changed & didnt anyone (I'm always with dad when he goes out), but today it backfired. Bro3 turned up late, with lunch in hand for dad saying he'll just have lunch here with dad now, so i left thinking the keu wasn't gonna be an issue. But while i was gone - bro3 changed his mind again & took dad out for coffee & they got locked out. Bro3 sent several horrible tx messages to me, which put a dampener on a lovely few hours when turning ph back on after the movie cinema, with my cuz (first time out in ages). Oh dear, it worried me. It seems bro3 broke in through the bathroom window anyway, dad was sitting comfortably in his couch alone when i got back. Said Bro3 cursed me a lot over the door.
It's like I'm not allowed to go out.
Bro3 texts indicate he'd been in discussion with my estranged toxic sister - I'm suspicious she is behind it & wants access to the house to continue going through things at will, regaedless of dad's feelings. I've told her / them, they're's no rush to clear out the house. Dad doesn't want to go into a Nursing Home yet & i'm happy to be here. He's in his last life season, has chronic kidney & heart disease... I don't get why they're not pleased i'm looking after him.
My beautiful time out with my cousin has been tainted.
TONIGHT - 2030hrs - two uniformed police came to the house to speak to me over Elder Abuse issues raised because dad didn't have the key to get back into the house today 😞 They spoke with dad too (dad is happy with me being here... It was nice to here dad say that to the police, and he even told them i "do more for him than ANYONE else ever does" Phew! He could have cracked one of his mean jokes or got the words mixed up...
Unfortunately for Bro3 i had to bring up the Mental Health thing, and my concern over how much Bro3 was upset to ring them & if he was likely to come over & v-abuse me tonight - because he can get abusive... The cops didn't know, hadnt talked with him themselves... They asked dad if bro3 gets abusive... and dad told them "yes, he can get quite abusive"
Thank goodness dad's still lucid enough to converse accurately with the brothers, i just feel so alone in all this without dad's witness. He's memory & cognitive decline makes it so hard, but he was clear tonight, thank goodness.
I was sueprised tonight when the policeman asked dad if i lock him in the house "can you get out oftthe househif youeneed to Mr...?" OMG - this caught me off guard - why would they even think that? What's my family saying? OMG! And what happens with the dementia if dad does start wondering & i have to lock the front door?
I think the police started to get the picture with my family.
WHY ARE THEY DOING THIS TOO ME?!? Sounds like they're drumming up some kinda Elder Abuse claims now. But why? Why do they want me out of the house? Nobody else is available to come stay with dad & care for him. And why is the keys to the house so important to them when they've been visiting whenever they want. Dad needs someone here, i have medical backup on that. What do they want! Dad was so scared when mum died recently, scaredIwhat was'gonba happen to him. I'm buffering that, and proud to, but with no support or compensation, just because i care, and he's my dad.
What's wrong with my siblings?
Or is it me?
Yes dad should have a key to his house even though he never has to use it himself + but he doesn't have to let everyone have a copy of the same key. I have to sleep here! And am responsible for his stuff. And i have v-abusive brothers, that do drugs & always broke & have Sz CTO injections, everyone's scared of them & mother's former MI outbursts (God rest her soul).
Why can't we all just gwt along
I'm upset tonight
Anybody around: @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Shaz51, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @Owlunar, @soul,
WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
WANNA GO HOME BUT CAN'T ABANDON DAD JUST YET. POOR DAD.
