It just hurts

@Former-Memberplease try and keep safe and that includes SH as well, if you need to the support helplines are there too and we are all here for you.

i really wouldnt want you to give in at all, id love to see you build a better life, create a life that you want filled with the things you enjoy doing

how about doing something you enjoy doing tonight as a form of distraction and self care?

I'd just like to let you know @Former-Member that simply having you here, seeing your 'likes' on some of my posts when that's all you could do (sometimes a 'like' is all any of us can do) and having you to chat with sometimes has been really helpful and worthwhile to me.

It's not necessary to write long posts (gawd, I know I can get carried away) or offer wise information, just by 'being there' you have given me a lift on more than one occasion. I want you to know that.

I get what you mean when you say sometimes you feel a bit overlooked and invisible, I sometimes do too. It's an awful feeling.

I want you to know that you have often made that feeling less for me simply because you took the time to respond in some way, even when you probably didn't feel too much like it yourself, you didn't want someone else to feel that.

You are not a burden to me and I hear others here saying the same thing. That's a hard one to believe sometimes because our own emotions get in the way, but it's true for me, you are not a burden to me. I would miss you if you were not here.

i agree with you @Former-Member posts dont have have to be long and fancy, a simple 'im here for you' is enough for us here

i believe that in time @Former-Member life will become better for you too, thats what i hope anyway. i know you appreciate and i thank you for telling me that, i appreciate your help too even though you dont think its help

Just saying goodnight for now @Former-Member

I want to say @outlander that your posts and insights are most appreciated too.

have the best night you all can @Snowie @Catcakes @Sans911

thank you @Former-Member as are yours

@Former-Memberits entirely up to you, as i said im happy to listen or to just sit and be in company with you, whatever youd like

@Former-Memberyou didnt finish typing....