It just hurts

your worth it to me @Former-Member you might get through it but you dont have to go it alone either. you have all of us here too willing to help you. we think you are worth our time and energy and in helping others we help ourselves

@Former-Member

I have been reading along and am going to add to the people that want to be here for you. Yes we are going through all our own issues, but to help others at the same time, I find is reeally a form of self care too. I find that by helping others, I can sometimes see things with more clarity, purpose and it has even calmed me down before. I am sure there are others that feel this way too.

At the end of the day, yes we are strangers, but I find the connections on here real. I find that people understand me on here much more than in real life and that there are times where I thought I couldn't continue and other members on here have helped me.

There are times where I can help others and times I need that help myself. And that is ok. We all go through our ups and downs.

I guess what I am saying is we all signed up here for a reason. What was yours?

You are a valuable member of this forum and I have loved talking to you. And I care because you matter so much.

and so do you @Former-Member we all deserve help, support and better times. you dont have to beleive us about being worth it but your not alone

@Former-Member sane helpline is also avaliable if you dont want to talk to us as well

@Former-Memberare you safe?

its ok that you cant offer alot, even small words of support are enough. there are others here ive met that dont even leave there own thread and you have and i feel youve been helping me with your own unique way with words of support and encouragement