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Daily goals, motivation and check in

Daily goals, motivation and check in

I'm starting this discussion as a place where we can set our goals daily, help motivate each other to do them and then check in with how we went. It's a place to celebrate when we achieve them or just sit with each other if we didnt and are feeling down about it. Hopefully with encouragement and support from each other we'll tick lots of boxes for our daily goals and feel good about it. Please join in. 😊

Note* Ive just started this thread again so it will be visible. Once I deleted my account it no longer shows up.

please join in again if and when needed.

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Thank you for your kindness @frog. I'm glad that something I've said has had some small measure of a positive effect for you and I'm happy to hear about the advancement someone has had in their day too. Sorry, I'm not entirely coherent as I had an emergency health issue last evening an infection that went critical. I'm dosed to the eyeballs and feel way less than human, but wanted to respond.

I'm very glad I have some of the skills I took the time and effort to learn over the years. It's not always easy to do, but I'm fortunate to have chosen to seek those things out I think. Perhaps if ma had been kinder about teaching me I would not have sought out lessons elsewhere. I'd not thought of it that way before!

How I'd like to have a dog again, but housing and costs make it not viable for me. I do miss my last pet, he died in my arms after being run over by a passing motorist. The vet would not see him, late at night, told me if he wasn't 'leaking red stuff' to bring him in next morning - well that was too late wasn't it, sadly.

Goodness the close proximity would be most difficult to deal with, I think you're very courageous to be dealing wth things so well.

Plants thing - you can start with some pots of herbs you know, sometimes they grow well in bathrooms ro on window sills.

I hope everyone is a nice enough evening.

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Oh @Former-Member you are really having a terrible time. It sounds like one thing after the other. I hope that you get some relief and the infection comes under control pronto.

I am so sorry to hear about your dog. That's really upsetting about the vet. They are such loyal friends. My two are old - 13 and 11 and I am wondering how long they'll be with us. They are really part of the family. I sleep under the stairs, and the dogs sleep on a pull out trundle bed next to me. They can be naughty, but are so funny and eager to please that I can never be cross with them. I talk to them like I do to people. The older one is deaf, but I can't help myself.

We really are packed in here - 3 humans, 2 dogs. In terms of living on top of each other, the dogs are much easier than the kids! My daughter sleeps on a tiny landing and is super messy so her stuff is spilling out everywhere and taking over the bathroom. My son got the bedroom because I thought it would be better for all of us if he had somewhere to retreat to. He is difficult - moody and contrary. He can be lovely too, but there's no knowing. Hmmm, I wonder what they'd say about me ... I like routine and structure and wish they did too, so they may think I'm inflexible!

I watered my front courtyard tonight, but ran out of light for the back. It's rediculously warm for this time of year. My first herb is going to be rosemary, then parsley. I also need to reinvigorate my mint - think it needs to be repotted.

Wishing you good sleep tonight.

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Ok back to the goals for the day. Hi @Former-Member @Mazarita @eudemonism @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51 @Phoenix_Rising How is today looking for you? I had a yuck day yesterday, so my goal in general is to have a better one today. Specifically:

to not get caught up in work drama

to pace myself

to walk at lunchtime

to give myself a break on the housework front and focus on getting food on the table

to get to bed as early as possible

Feeling very tired and a bit emotionally bruised, so I'm trying to look after myself.

I hope today holds some of what you need, take care.

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They sound like good goals for the day @frog!

My goals for today:

Make a new thread here for myself where things might feel safer and more together for me.

Not do too much as I have a long way to go for recovery with this infection.

Help my friend get to their appointments today recovered enough to drive today thanks to the new mega anti biotics.

May today offer solace from hurts, and opportunities for self care for those who want and need it.

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💜 @Former-Member @frog

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@frog I been apart up and down like a up yo... The meds they've had me on for about five years now... Are no good!.. Time for a change...

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Lovely to 'see' you @Faith-and-Hope

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Busy week @Former-Member .....

Thinking of you all.

💜

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Gosh @eudemonism that sounds challenging. I hope you can get some good advice on what next. Hope you have restful sleep tonight.

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Thinking of you all @Faith-and-Hope @Teej @frog @eudemonism @Bunniekins @CheerBear and others that my current headache means I can't recall - sorry.

Hope your day has some pleasantness in it for you.

Although there's not much energy to go around right now, today I'd like to:

Maybe do some washing - still thinking about whether I have the energy etc to do that

Make an omelette for breakie eventually using up the left over chicken and a mushroom

Sweep the floors

Work on the green crochet edging on the new hankies that arrived yesterday (hurt my hand yesterday so tatting is out as I can't really bend the middle finger)

Get some more sleep because sleep was a bit disturbed last night due to lots of discomfort from the infection still

May the day provide some upliftment and ease for those who need or want it.

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