Hello everyone..you are not alone remembering everyone @Teej
I also understand when you mention if a name missed that person might feel discluded..
on my worst days I have been sensitive enough to feel that way..
also when someone has made a remark to me disagreeing or questioning my post..again that has affected me strongly..even though rationally I know the reaction is ridiculous..
I want to thank you again @Teej for creating this thread..
it has helped me in many ways even when I have not responded.
..thinking about a daily goal..huge
..motivation..hard...
..isolating...even though have goal..have motivation..cannot leave house on some days
..isolating..on some days do not want to talk to anyone other than husband..mum..sister..son...hear from missing son..
so I actually think of all of theses things muddled up..
has helped.
assertively asked husband to stay home and help me clear up decluttering mess in every room..
had mini meltdown yesterday..in shell shock today..
husband helped and we cleaned up all 3 bedrooms..he took 6 large bags to op shop..
drained but huge relief...
so thank you @Teej and @lapses with your decluttering thread..all others who offered support and suggestions
you are making progress @Teej whwn we are overwhelmed we are unable to see this..
take care