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Daily goals, motivation and check in

Daily goals, motivation and check in

I'm starting this discussion as a place where we can set our goals daily, help motivate each other to do them and then check in with how we went. It's a place to celebrate when we achieve them or just sit with each other if we didnt and are feeling down about it. Hopefully with encouragement and support from each other we'll tick lots of boxes for our daily goals and feel good about it. Please join in. 😊

Note* Ive just started this thread again so it will be visible. Once I deleted my account it no longer shows up.

please join in again if and when needed.

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Re: Daily goals, motivation and check in

This is a great thread! It's just what I need! 🙂

Today I want to get a good lot of house tidying done. Things have piled up on the kitchen bench and in the lounge-room that I need to put away and get rid of. I also need to go out to 2 supermarkets once they open, to get different things. Leaving the house is not easy for me as I have agoraphobia which has worsened during lockdown. If I get all that done, then I want to clean the bathroom - but I may not get that far.

I will check back later today!

@frog

@Faith-and-Hope

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Good for you @NatureLover ❣️ This thread has helped a lot of people find their motivation to begin with the little things about daily routine that help to provide structure (I like the term scaffolding) to their day, then day after more structured day, begin to feel a sense of achievement and worth about it.

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Hey @NatureLover how's it going? That was a bit of a list!

On mine atm:

  • meditate for 10 mins
  • get washing in and hang up inside (too cold to dry!)
  • make a little cake (practicing/testing recipe for kid's 18th)
  • sweep the floor
  • ironing
  • Do some physio exercises
  • read myself to sleep

Hi @Faith-and-Hope hope you are travelling ok today.

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So I didn't get all the tidying done that I wanted, but I did manage to leave the house to go out grocery shopping, yay!

Thank you @Maggie for linking to this thread in one of your posts, otherwise I wouldn't have known it existed. 🙂

@frog , how has your day gone? You had quite a few things on your list...

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Hi @NatureLover I'm flagging but have achieved some of my list: floor, washing, meditation. Nearly finished cake and part finished exercises. Ironing is the big one I need to tackle next. Have a good evening and enjoy that you've achieved some of your goals!

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It’s a good thread @NatureLover.

You and @frog are doing well. Better than me. There’s always tomorrow. 😁😁

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@frog it sounds like you achieved most of your list yesterday! Well done 🙂

Thanks for your encouragement, too.

@Maggie I agree, there's always tomorrow! 😄

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I am desperate to just get off the lounge. My house has fallen apart. I find no joy in anything. I stare at the mess, then the wall and am defeated. I'm overwhelmed by everything and do anything I can to avoid being involved in life.

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@Angela17 I just happened to be online, and noticed your post.

Welcome.

I wonder if making yourself a coffee of tea would help. Small steps, even tiny ones matter.

Do you have any support? Like GP/Psych?

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Re: Daily goals, motivation and check in

Good morning and welcome to the forums @Angela17 . I think many of us here relate to that feeling of being so overwhelmed that it feels hard to even move, let alone find a purpose in getting up and going for the day. That has been of great value with this thread ..... leaning on the encouragement of others here to begin putting one foot in front of another with "baby steps".

As @Maggie suggested, starting each day with a tea or coffee is a good way of establishing a Step 1.

When it's hard to find the energy or motivation to even move, this next suggestion can sound strange, but often treatment for what is referred to as "inertia" is the idea of making your bed every day. Even if you lie straight back down on top of it, or in it, just the act of making the bed every day brings a small, simple challenge.

Aking the bed starts with simply finding one end to toss the pillow to, then toss the sheet / blanket / doona over the bed, and give yourself a mental tick - done.

If that is Step1 for you, and tea or coffee is Step 2, then you have a 2-step routine in your day, and you can consider what your Step 3 might be. It can be as simple as putting your two shoes together, side by side, wherever they have landed, or taking a plate to the sink, even if it joins a stack there, or picking up a single empty packet and finding a bin for it ..... baby steps ..... one after another. It start to make a difference.

Inertia comes on in slow stages for most people, and recovery does also. You are not alone.

I missed your tag the other day @frog ..... well done on getting to what you have yesterday ! Hi also @NatureLover @Maggie @Teej.

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