Cancer took my husband of 40 years. Not coping.

It is very understandable @Starta, and it is good to talk about it

I have not lost a husband yet but I have lost my dad , and my uncle who was like my second dad

@Faith-and-Hope and @Former-Member and @Owlunar have lost a child which is different I know but they might be able to give you some suggestions

John was in a band, that would of been interesting @Starta

do your children play music too

@Shaz51,

No, there interests was listening they didn't want to learn, the love the old music as well

@Shaz51

loosing a husband is devasting but loosing a child would be like loosing a part of your soul,,Please tell them how sad I feel for them 🤗🤗🤗

Have you eaten and drink today @Starta, please take care of yourself

@Shaz51

i forgot to, I'm not hungry maybe I will have a cupp tea soon

@Shaz51

I forgot to, I haven't been hungry, maybe I will make a cup of tea soon

cup of tea sounds good @Starta, I will have one with you xx

please eat something too even if you don`t feel like it

@Shaz51

Not hungry,, I can't eat now. Maybe later.

Hi @Starta

a friend @Queenie has written this ( sometimes I get overwhelmed when I think of those who've loved me and I've loved that have passed away. I was encouraged to light a candle and think of them, even talk to them if you want to (although I feel weird about that part, especially in the presence of others). Know that wherever they are now (I am a believer in a life after this one), they are at peace and still care for you. I'm sure they'd hate to see you suffering so much. Hugs @Starta