outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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ok @outlander, then some gentle things tomorrow. Movies, laying on the couch sort of day
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I said my middle sister could wash my car and vaccum it out for abit of pocket money.thatll entertain her for a while.i just need to clean it out like jackets and shoes and whatever else is in there atm. Might watch little one ride her scooter at the same time then they arent annoying each other and they are both occupied.ive only got to sit there and watch @Snowie
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlanderthat sounds ok. Have you got any other plans for the weekend?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Oh geez what a fitting song that just come on!
All the things she said -t.a.t.u
All the things she said -t.a.t.u
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Sorry hun, thought I had responded but hadn't. Losing my mind
That sounds like they will be entertained for awhile.
How are you feeling now?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I need to go back to the previous posts. You all deserve a proper response and im sorry i couldnt write back straight away. Also it takes me abit as im on my phone. My computers off getting fixed.
@Former-Member
Thank you for understanding. I know this is what here is for but its still hard to reach out sometimes. Youve covered the part about the negatives being a costant and basically ruling our lives. I have been to 5 different psychs. I just dont seem to click or perhaps its just me. Ill look for another but im more weary than ever.
Lonliness yes is definently a factor but i just cant seem to fit in anywhere. I tried a group and it went south and then got cancelled. I dont even fit in with the horses anymore. Or maybe its lacking passion. I was asked to help at the show and i did but it doesnt feel the same as when i was doing it a while ago. Everything just feels different now.
I do have my amazing forum friends here but it would be nice to have someone here too to go out shopping or to the cinemas and have that normal interaction and glimpses of a normal life.
Thank you again for your support and for walking this journey with me ❤
@MDT
I honestly didnt like meetup at all. I did sign up but it felt like a trap. Hard to explain. It didn't feel right being on there.
I dont have a psych or a support worker yet. I dont see my gp or my pdoc very often either. Im pretty much doing this alone so im very thankful for these forums. Thanks for your support too ♥
@Appleblossom
He is so hard! My dog eats well at least. The soups are cheap so we buy them and he has them at lunch or the days im more unwell and just dont feel like cooking or eating. i try to get in a better meal at the end of the day. Its often the only thing i have in the day as well so try to make it nutritional. The only thing he hasnt really complained about are my roasts but i cant make those everyday. I cant force him to eat what i make as long hes eaten i suppose thats all that matters. Im probably just being selfish.
Thank you for your continued support too 💗
@Former-Member
Thank you for understanding. I know this is what here is for but its still hard to reach out sometimes. Youve covered the part about the negatives being a costant and basically ruling our lives. I have been to 5 different psychs. I just dont seem to click or perhaps its just me. Ill look for another but im more weary than ever.
Lonliness yes is definently a factor but i just cant seem to fit in anywhere. I tried a group and it went south and then got cancelled. I dont even fit in with the horses anymore. Or maybe its lacking passion. I was asked to help at the show and i did but it doesnt feel the same as when i was doing it a while ago. Everything just feels different now.
I do have my amazing forum friends here but it would be nice to have someone here too to go out shopping or to the cinemas and have that normal interaction and glimpses of a normal life.
Thank you again for your support and for walking this journey with me ❤
@MDT
I honestly didnt like meetup at all. I did sign up but it felt like a trap. Hard to explain. It didn't feel right being on there.
I dont have a psych or a support worker yet. I dont see my gp or my pdoc very often either. Im pretty much doing this alone so im very thankful for these forums. Thanks for your support too ♥
@Appleblossom
He is so hard! My dog eats well at least. The soups are cheap so we buy them and he has them at lunch or the days im more unwell and just dont feel like cooking or eating. i try to get in a better meal at the end of the day. Its often the only thing i have in the day as well so try to make it nutritional. The only thing he hasnt really complained about are my roasts but i cant make those everyday. I cant force him to eat what i make as long hes eaten i suppose thats all that matters. Im probably just being selfish.
Thank you for your continued support too 💗
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie you did respond. You asked me if i had any other plans for the weekend so where is that post gone? I read it just as i started to type up these posts.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlanderthat ok, I thought I was going crazier than I already am!! And then thought was it because I had taken my meds already. Hmmmm not sure where it went then!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yep ive still got the notification but when i click on it its not there. @Snowie
Will get back to you in a min. Im just going back over thr posts from earlier
Will get back to you in a min. Im just going back over thr posts from earlier
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie
Your first part of your post is exactly my thoughts on reaching out and it gets even harder when my thoughts are so loud that i want to end it but i dont want to drag anyone into it either.
I use to be very annoying asking for help all the time. And i know that as i can very much see it from when i was a previous member before both you and sans were here. Basically a yr and a half ago i was basically using here like someone would fb.. Ive found a better balance now but now its easier for me to shut down and not ask at all. It seems all the shut downs and things life has thrown at me has made me feel i cant ask for help and when i do i just get in trouble for it.
Id much rather help than be helped. I want to be the one who spreads positive around but life wont stop drowning me so i can do that more.
Thank you for being here for me to sis it does mean more than you know 💜
You also asked if i had any other plans for the weekend. No real plans just kinda going with the flow for now. What about you and also how are you going?
Your first part of your post is exactly my thoughts on reaching out and it gets even harder when my thoughts are so loud that i want to end it but i dont want to drag anyone into it either.
I use to be very annoying asking for help all the time. And i know that as i can very much see it from when i was a previous member before both you and sans were here. Basically a yr and a half ago i was basically using here like someone would fb.. Ive found a better balance now but now its easier for me to shut down and not ask at all. It seems all the shut downs and things life has thrown at me has made me feel i cant ask for help and when i do i just get in trouble for it.
Id much rather help than be helped. I want to be the one who spreads positive around but life wont stop drowning me so i can do that more.
Thank you for being here for me to sis it does mean more than you know 💜
You also asked if i had any other plans for the weekend. No real plans just kinda going with the flow for now. What about you and also how are you going?
