rough time

hi sis @Snowie having one of those days today.

how are you going? have you been discharged?

@outlanderhugs sis, am around for a bit if you need to chat.

Going ok, am home now

ive written abit on 'A long rave' @Snowie if you want to catch up there, we can chat here if you would like but no pressure either had a bit of a chat with Mohill

are you glad to be back home- might be a stupid question there! but as long as you have more skills to cope now too. how did you find your stay there?

@outlanderok hun, will read it there, I am sure you don't want to repeat yourself!!

Will write on the other thread soon

no pressure though @Snowie take you time readjusting to home and getting yourself settled big hugs to you too

@outlanderI read through and agree with mohill where your mother assumes you will have the kids. I know you have tried to speak to her before and it falls on deaf ears and nothing much changes

it gets very frustrating @Snowie hopefully in time things will continue to change though. long term expectations and habits from everyone can be hard to change at all...

just struggling to cope atm i guess. jsut all the built up stuff and this time of yr too.

@outlanderI know this time of year is hard for you hun and now is the time to make sure you have some plans on how to cope. You have us on here too to help you through.

Yes expectations and habits from people are hard especially family. I spoke to the pdoc in hosp. quite a bot about my mother, how she talks to me and her expectations on her. I know I need to be more outspoken but I guess I am like you in that way a bit, where we just agree/do to keep the peace......mothers can be super difficult at times

yeh i know, im grateful for the support i have on here for sure. @Snowie i think today is just one of those shitty 'im over it all' kinda days.

yes im like you in that way, i hate conflict so try to avoid it but its not helping me all that much by avoiding it either but will keep working on at least myself as i cant change others.