outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Of course not @Appleblossom anyone is welcome 💕
@Former-Member if you need hospital would you be prepared to go? I know how hard but you need help and support to that doesnt mean having to telling your life story but letting them help and support you..
@Former-Member if you need hospital would you be prepared to go? I know how hard but you need help and support to that doesnt mean having to telling your life story but letting them help and support you..
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eth please come and join us whenever it takes your fancy 🙂
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Unknown userMember
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@Appleblossum, the depression yes hard to put one foot in front of the other, been like a statue some days stare in the bushMany times. The anxiety Is rather in that respect makes me move.
@Bunniekins,got my regrets with animals over the years,that I hate myself for.
@Bunniekins,got my regrets with animals over the years,that I hate myself for.
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Unknown userMember
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@Appleblossum above.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member Li1 I think we all do ... as they depend upon us so much and sometimes we are not there for them as much as we can or should (speaking for myself here).
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@Bunniekins, had a beautiful grey female, who was dumped on me out the farm, only trusted me and mum as she was feral, deduced her, gave her to my niece when I moved, she took off, and I say starved to death as she was feral.... I feel so guilty still 2.5yrs later, hope I can rescue one one day to make up for it.
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Unknown userMember
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Can't @outlander, two housecleaning next week but can't leave mother as well unless the "family "stepped up" and I doubt that, plus the humiliation of it.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member you need hospital would you be prepared to go? I know how hard but you need help and support to that doesnt mean having to telling your life story but letting them help and support you..
Maybe you could adopt another cat? The rspca and other rescues are always looking for new homes...?
Maybe you could adopt another cat? The rspca and other rescues are always looking for new homes...?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Other services like NDIS @Former-Member can help you. They can come care for your mum and you wouldn't have to tell your family anything more than your unwell and thats if they ask....
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member Honestly sweetie you are a kind and caring woman who does her best you have no reason to feel guilty. You did your best. Believe me I have guilt. i have guilt and sadness just over when they die from old age!!! it is just part and parcel of owning and animal and being a human being.
